Question of the Week: Are there adoptions in your family tree?

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in The Tree House by Eowyn Walker G2G Astronaut (2.5m points)
Yes, me born in 1960.  Found my birth mother in 1994 and 6 half brothers and a half sister.  We have a great relationship and I feel super lucky!  Just before Christmas I was contacted by a half-brother on my paternal side which is amazing!  He found me through a DNA test!  No idea how to attack my family trees and wondering if there are any more half siblings out there!
My great great grandfather was supposedly adopted after his father was involved in a fishing accident and died at sea. I’m very confused by the whole thing records wise because his marriage certificate has his mother’s name and it’s not the name of the woman he lived with as a child and teenager. Unless there are two men with the same name… which is quite possible and wouldn’t be the only case in the family.
My father was born illegitimately to Ruby Agnes Ryan c1884, on 9/9/1909 at a home for unwed mothers in Stanley St. Newtown. a suburb of Sydney in Australia. Ruby named him Stanley John Ryan.

Six months later Ruby gave him up to a childless couple Thomas and Eleanor Bancroft to foster, they raised him as Stanley John Bancroft which is why I bear that surname. DOCS now refer to this practice as being a 'Back Door Adoption' and NSW laws were formulated about 1925 to deal with it however it went on behind closed doors for many years.

My Gedmatch kit number is A626300 and the

Genesis number is JS8758526
Following the death of my wife Sue's parents due to natural causes we were preparing their house for sale and her sister Jennifer came across her baptismal certificate.

It gave her dat of birth and her siblings ages was listed as of that date.

Jennifer noted something had been erased beside Sue's name. She took it outside into the sunshine and was able to make out the word Adopted.

Sue telephoned her only living Aunt and asked who her biological father was, she was told he was a Captain in the US Navy (Name Unknown) which is rather curious as he would have to have been visiting Sydney, Australia in April or May 1940 which was about six months before the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor. Sadly the Harbour Master's records for ships tied up in Sydney Harbour at that time have not survived the rigors of time.

Sue passed away in hospital on the 8th of March 2024 from natural causes, she gave me permission to send a sample of her DNA to Ancestry to be tested so I am not losing hope of discovering her biological father's name.
Yes, my maternal grandfather, the youngest of ten children, was orphaned by his biological parents at the age of 4 and he was sent to the Iowa Soldiers Orphanage Home in Davenport, Iowa. Two brothers are documented as being in the orphanage at the same time. My grandfather was later adopted. I have learned some information about his biological family and I hope to learn more. I have taken DNA tests and confirmed the relationship to the biological. I’d also like to know more about the orphanage home.

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by A. Murphy G2G6 Mach 2 (22.5k points)
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My dad, Hubert Fry, was "adopted".  I do not believe he was legally adopted but just given to my Grandma and Grandpa Frye.  On his birth certificate, his name is Hubert Fry and his parents listed are his birth parents, James Jones and Ellen Lawson.  This was a huge help in finding his birth family. I am so thankful that we were able to find his maternal birth family and they welcomed us with open arms.  Dad got to spend about 10 years with them. His eldest sister, Janie Ausmus Dyer's kids came and visited us for his last 5 birthdays.  We will all cherish the memories made.

by Judith Fry G2G6 Mach 7 (77.3k points)
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My step-grandfather was orphaned as a small child and he and his sister were adopted separately. (He ran away, but that's another story.)

You can see him here (along with his sister) in this 1920 U.S. Census record, living at the Milwaukee Orphan Asylum. (Although at that time his father was not yet deceased, he passed away a bit later.)

https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MFK2-5QN
by Dina Grozev G2G6 Pilot (198k points)
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My great-great grandmother was adopted.  Her mother is tentatively identified from autosomal and mtdna testing. https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Nichols-9987
by Kathy Benson G2G6 (6.8k points)
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A cousin of my mother was adopted. My Grandmother told me Collera was not really her sisterʻs baby. The ʻrealʻ baby was stillborn.

One day I found a record of the stillbirth (boy) while researching the father. On the next page I found a birth record listing the same father and mother (Momʻs aunt). That record showed them as parents, no indication of birth mother, no indication that it was an adoption. The birth date was a few months before the stillbirth. They took home the baby girl.

Unfortunately the daughter never had children, so there  are no descendants to test. She was gone before DNA testing was available.

There are several adoptions among the living members of my family.
by Kristina Adams G2G6 Pilot (352k points)
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Yes, me, as was the norm in 1949, my mother didn't even get to hold me and I spent 14 months in an orphanage before being adopted.

My adopted parents told me I was adopted when I was 7.

I waited til they both past before my journey to find my birth mother,and after my mistakes, and finally a DNA pairing  with a maternal first cousin, I found my birth mother and aa younger(12 years younger)maternal half brother,  that was an amazing first conversation.

To make a long story short, if you  are looking, don't take no, or I don't know for an answer if you're looking for your past.

This may not be really to the subject of this, but I hope it helps.

James
by James Brooks G2G Astronaut (1.4m points)
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My paternal grandfather Jerrold Elwyn Wycoff was "adopted".

His parents were identified via Ancestry Autosomal DNA. Thankfully it was an easy case. The identity of his parents were discovered through Adoption Angels on here. :)

It was Linda Chickering who was wonderful in solving the mystery. :)

by J Head G2G6 Mach 1 (16.8k points)
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Yes. My grandfather George Albert Popham and his twin brother Henry John Popham were adopted. His baptismal certificate has Henry Charles Popham and Eva Leeder as his parents. However, his birth certificate has Henry Charles Popham and Kathleen Mary (Denahy) as his parents. HC Popham was married to Kathleen at the time of my grandfather's birth.

I don't think it was an "official" adoption but I'm wondering why the two documents would be different.
by Deb Boehne G2G Crew (960 points)
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Yes, my mother was adopted by her aunt and uncle shortly after her bio mother died. https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Cassells-61

by Gary Milks G2G6 Mach 1 (12.9k points)
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My 2nd great Grandma Mary Agnes Barris was adopted. She was born 20 Aug 1888 in Manhatten New York at the St. Anns Maternity located on 69th and Lex ave. Her biological parents were O.W Barris and Kate A Morley. The info came from a copy of her birth cirtificate.
by Jennifer Robins G2G6 Pilot (255k points)
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Yes! Both my moms parents were adopted, its my biggest brick wall.
by Emma Hughes G2G Crew (500 points)
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Yes, in my line so far I know of my great grandmother.  I was able to solve it decisively with DNA this past fall, but there were clues along the way. I am curious about another great grandfather as that line is a brick wall and I am coming up with some unexpected genealogies when I do Leeds method.  Life is never perfect and straightforward.

And then we have the modern era where I am an adoptive mom x2 who's married to an adopted person, whose 3xgreat grandfather was left of the steps of a building... so no idea how his last name truly evolved (various spelling changes).
by Melissa Devin G2G1 (1.1k points)
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One of my nieces and her husband have adopted at least half a dozen children. Some are official and some are still under foster care. However, I don't feel I have the right to "out" them.
by Milton Owens G2G1 (1.2k points)
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My younger brother and I are both adopted. He (b. 1971) has no interest in finding his birth family, but I (b. 1966) had always been curious. In 1996, a younger half-brother contacted me. It’s been a rollercoaster ride, but I am now very close with my birth mother and an older half-brother. My mother is Canadian, and I recently received paperwork confirming my Canadian citizenship! My birth father died in 2007 before I had enough information about him to find him, but I did connect briefly with two younger half-brothers. The best thing to come of doing genealogy has been finding a half-sister on my father’s side who is only two months older than I am. I’m writing a book.
by Holly Wells G2G1 (1.3k points)
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My great grandfather, Milton Mills Brooks, and his twin brother, Milford, were adopted by the Brooks family before they were three years old.  Their older half-sister, Julia Morehouse, was also taken in by the Brooks family, but later adopted by the Haskell family.

Milford Brooks was returned to the county poorhouse as a child, and later resided with his mother and older half-sister.  On the 1880 census, his surname is shown as Rice, which is the surname of his biological father.

I learned about the adoption of Milton and Milford after my dad died in 1982, and I would say this particular event really drew me into genealogy. 

It took me about ten years to identify the birth mother:  Mary Rowley.  She had been married to John Morehouse and had three daughters, but then John died.

After nearly forty years, my family and I have come pretty close to confirming the birth father as Anson T. Rice, who was in the right place at the right time - but was a married man with eight or nine children.  Anson and his wife separated in the time period.

Two of Milton's male descendants, and two of Anson's male descendants have done the 111-marker Y-chromosome test, and are close matches.  I am hoping we can upgrade to the Big Y-700 for all of them.

Lastly, other branches of my family have adopted children as well - many of which I have been able to identify.

by Bill Hull G2G6 Mach 2 (20.6k points)
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My father, born in 1910 Frank Albert Wootten, was "adopted".  Born in Cleveland in Feb. 1910, his natural parents (father Canadian, mother American) both died from TB in 1914.  He had a twin brother and a younger sister.  After the death of the parents, the kids were shifted among relatives until his uncle passed away in 1918.  At that time, a step-aunt, brought my father over to Canada to live with the step-aunt's sister and her husband.  At that point, my dad never had contact again with either his brother or sister.  Other than baptism records for the three children, I cannot locate any additional information on the brother or sister.  (Baptism took place in Bad Axe, Michigan) The birth surname was Wootten but once coming to Canada, the surname became Dermott after the "adopted" parents.
by Philip Dermott G2G1 (1.4k points)
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My great-grandmother, Martha Jane Sanford of Bath, Maine, was adopted by John and Thankful Rich Sanford. (Thankful was John's third wife; he had five children with his first two wives, Hannah Colson Swanton and Mary Coombs.) I am looking for her biological parents, and would love to hear from any Sanford descendants. 

by Meg Betts G2G Crew (900 points)
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My great grandmother  Lucy Ulner Windholz Geist was adopted.  Her parents left her when she was just days old at a receiving crib in the New York Foundling Hospital in 1899.  She was sent out on the orphan train to Kansas when she was two.  I've often wondered if I might be able to figure out my actual great great grandparents as there were not very many Ulners living in New York City at the time (about 8 families).  Does anyone have any ideas on how to do this?
by Brad Geist G2G2 (2.8k points)
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My father https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Neet-25

was adopted at age three with an older half-brother Victor Havens in 1936 from an orphan home in San Diego, CA. His new name was Roger Hensel Young. His birth parents were Arthur John Neet (Sometimes spelled “Neat”) and Helen Mae Havens.His adopted parents were Dr. John Parke Young and Florence Young of Pasadena, CA.

by JB Y G2G3 (3.3k points)
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Yes, there are a bunch of adoptees in my maternal side.
by Penny Palmer G2G3 (3.5k points)

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