Didn't find Henry but did find wife Miranda as widow, living with her father.
Source: "Vermont Vital Records, 1760-1954", database with images, FamilySearch (
https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XF74-YXT : 14 April 2020), Miranda L. Putnam, 1903.
IMAGE:
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Vermont Vital Records
: Miranda L. Putnam
: Death 24 Sep 1903 N. Pownal, Vermont, United States
: Volume 2 p. 190
: Female Widowed
: Age 72 yrs 4 mos 27 days Birth (est) 1831 N. Petersburg, N.Y.
: Father Nathan Wilcox
: Mother Mercie Ann Babcock
Source: "United States Census, 1880," database with images, FamilySearch (
https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MZF8-4VZ : 13 September 2017), Maranda Putnam in household of Nathan Wilcox, Petersburgh, Rensselaer, New York, United States; citing enumeration district ED 155, sheet 123C, NARA microfilm publication T9 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.), FHL microfilm 1,254,921.
United States Census, 1880 Petersburgh, Rensselaer, New York
: Nathan Wilcox Self Male 83 New York, United States
: Maranda Putnam Dau Female 47 New York, United States Widowed
: Harriet Wilcox Dau Female 40 New York, United States
: Warren Wilcox Son Male 33 New York, United States
: Gracie Wilcox Granddau Female 5 New York, United States
: Charles Putnam Grandson Male 20 Illinois, United States
: Frank Putnam Grandson Male 12 Illinois, United States