The 1860 census for James Babcock includes his family plus an Ester (Esther) Harrison. I wonder if after Lovey died in 1860, James and Esther married ... I see what may be a mention/index of their marriage record on Ancestry but am not yet convinced it is relevant.
I've added the 1860 census to James' record, created an unconnected profile for Esther Harrison for the Esther in the 1860 census, created a space page/category for the cemetery where James is buried and added this category to his profile, ...