Hi again Joan,
I think I found an answer for you on ancestry.com. I took a screen-shot of the parents, spouse and children of a (hopefully THE) Bridget Kavanagh, born 12/19/1841 in Co. Wexford; dies 12/10/1896 Paterson, NJ.
Could you send an email at nosullivan67@gmail .com, I will reply with the screen-shot.
Neil