I am trying to solve a 114 year old family mystery.
I have been dabbling in "classic" genealogy for 25+ years, but was reinvigorated by DNA earlier this year. While looking at my wife's family, I quickly realized that the paper trail didn't add up. My wife's paternal grandfather was born in 1893, and I found 2 marriage records each for his mother and father. Short part of the story is that we have DNA confirmed his mother is his, but not his father. What we did find was that his mother got married in 1890 and 1895 (he always believed that the 1895 marriage was his dad). Additionally, the man great-grandma married in 1890 got re-married himself in 1893 (same year grandpa was born).
We have found Zero autosomnal evidence that we are related to the man we thought was great-grandpa for 114 years (all connections we found also included a blood relation to great-grandma). We *have* found the very slightest of evidence that we are related to great-grandma's "Marriage #1"... One person with 10.5 cM over one segment, who could be a 4th cousin as the (paper-trail) tree branches... Not terribly conclusive.
We have found a fully paternal-paternal great-grandson of husband #1 although he has not ever responded to our reaching out. But in preparation of getting him agree to get tested, my father-in-law got a Y-111 test from FTDNA, and we got the results back a couple days ago.
It did not give us expected results in almost any respect... I expected a surname to quickly present itself as "dominant" and I expected either Husband #1 (Hughbanks/Hubanks) or Husband #2 (Hanson) to at least make an appearance, but not only did neither show up anywhere,*none* of the names seem particularly dominant in the listing.
When you buy a Y-111 test from FTDNA, you actually get a variety of results for 111, 67, 37, 25 and 12 markers respectively, so here are the results: His Haplotype is I-M253
Y-111: No matches
Y-67: 6 matches... with genetic distances of 5, 6, 7, 7, 7, and 7
Y-37: 3 matches... genetic distance 1 (Fisher), and 2 w/ distance of "4"
Y-25: 137 matches... including 7 w/ distance 0, 15 w/ distance 1
Y-12: 45 matches, all distance 0
So Y-25 appears most promising... Of the 7 w/ distance 0, the surname Hite appears 3 times, and appear to have only paid for a Y-25 test, so that could explain the absence at more markers. Of the other 4, 2 were 111 tests, one was a 67 and the other a 37 test and the oddity is that the Y-37 supposedly matching at distance 0 is the wrong Haplotype all together (I-Y10890).
Additionally, when I go back to the various autosomnal sites, I do see a bunch of Hite surnames showing up, and at a higher cM, but again not overwhelming: 33cM - on gedmatch (on 3 people with known Hite lineage over 2 segments), 40+ people on Ancestry topping out at 28cM and an Ancestry estimate of 4th cousin or more distant.a 69cM match on someone with the last name Hite on FTDNA itself (but who hasn't taken a Y test) and on 23andMe, where there is some overlap with gedmatch results.
So is the mystery father a Hite? Is there a better explanation? Do I need to wait for more people to take Y-111 tests? If it is a Hite, it may have been a brief fling, or something dark. Whatever it is, Great-Grandmother never told he kids or grandkids about it... and Grandpa grew up lived and died believing that husband #2 was the genetic father.