John, you are keeping the profiles wrong. No one has argued for what is now in Wikitree. You have also refused discussion, but insisted on being a merge-blocking profile manager. This has gone a long time. So yes of course that is frustrating. I find it hard to understand why that would be hard to understand.
I've been working on feudal baronies for more than a year and in cases like this I've tried to patiently ask people to look at things, and then returned weeks, months, etc, later, in long cycles. But in this case there is no sign that you will ever even reply, and instead your reactions have been defensive. Maud and Hawise, two sisters, married the same family, but currently I can not show that. As far as I know, the doubts you have read about should have no impact on this particular issue. This is a purely artificial problem, extended over a very long period.
One way or another you should at least make sure that the real doubts about one or two people do not spread like a disease and make all the profiles around them impossible to fix for years. If on the other hand all we have our doubts, no clear solution, then we should just register doubts in the various usual ways and keep working? I am open to different approaches but once again, there is no doubt that the situation right now is wrong according to everyone.
If you have not had time, over several years, to propose a concrete new family construction, then following the standard pedigree in Complete Peerage would at least allow Wikitree to keep going, and from that position it would be no more difficult to make future changes should they be required. The situation we have now is certainly wrong according to ALL accounts.
As you know, you rejected a merge two years ago and I have tried to communicate with you about this several times more since. You've refused clear explanation, but you've made sure you are in a position to block some types of changes.
I think this is a good example of why the profile manager system should be given up entirely for pre-1500 profiles. It can only be used as a tool against other editors, to avoid discussion. In pre 1500, people should have to give evidence. If you do not have time to look into the case, and frankly you are not sure what your own case is, then I do not think it is appropriate that you have set yourself up as profile manager in a way which even affects efforts to clean up related families.
As far as I can see there are various doubts that can be raised, but there is no clear proposal being made. I think that unlike you, I've explained your possible sources, but I don't see what practical consensus we can take from those discussions as a new family structure.
Can we please at least pick one believable option for now in order to avoid this blockage creating knock-on effects? If we are going to go with Peter Stewart (which requires no merge, but which means Wikitree is taking a strong new position), then we need to cite him and his sources/explanations, and we need to put children with the correct fathers and (where known) mothers.
Shall I do that? Did you have a plan about which is the "French" one and which is the lord of Sutton?