Please help me parse this statement

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I am a "newt" chipping away at a tough spot.  My 2nd great grandmother's maiden name is unclear.  (Research Notes at McGowan-4179.)  Today I found, in the Compendium of American Genealogy at the Internet Archive, the following text:

3--Robert Sydney (1847-1921), Louisville, Ky., and Kansas City, Mo.; served in 24th Miss Cav., C.S.A; m 1872, Grace Douglas McGowan (ca. 1852-1896; James R. [William Hiram Smith by adoption], of Scotland, m Elianor Parry [Elizabeth Garnett Smith by adoption], of Wales);

What does this "by adoption" mean in the context?  Did James R. and Elianor Parry adopt entirely new names upon entering the US?  Were they adopted by US citizens in Scotland/Wales before entering the US? And how in the world do I continue from here backwards in my lineage?  

I'd be very grateful for any hints the community has to offer.

WikiTree profile: Grace Shreve
in Genealogy Help by Nancy Carroll G2G Crew (870 points)

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Ok fell right into the rabbit hole with this one and have found a lot, so my understanding now is William Hiram Smith was not Grace's biological father. (His probate notice identifies her as an adopted daughter). He was married to Elizabeth Garnett who was born 1810 in Franklin County, La (her obituary) or (Virginia as per find a grave). Her obituary does not make that distinction just identifies her as mother.

Elizabeth's parents have find a grave entries that are quite informative and indicate that Elizabeth was married before she married William Hiram Smith

Elizabeth Garnett (m.1. Mr. Allison, m.2. Hiram Smith # 122608105) is buried at Fairview Cemetery in Bowling Green, Ky.

memorial of Elizabeth

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/122608105/elizabeth_buckner_smith

memorial of Elizabeth's mother

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/122608105/elizabeth_buckner_smith
by Kate Morley G2G2 (2.6k points)
selected by Jo Fitz-Henry
WILLS PROBATED

The will of W. Hiram Smith was admitted to probate in the County Court. He bequeaths all his estate of every kind to his wife, A. E. Smith, and directed that no inventory be taken of the property. She is appointed executrix without bond and is empowered to use the estate as she pleases without being held responsible to any one. At her death he directs that the remainder be given to his adopted daughter, Mrs. Robert S. Shreve, for the separate use of herself and children. His gold watch and $100 is given to his grandson, Hiram Smith Shreve, and $100 to his granddaughter, Corinna Shreve.

The Courier-Journal, 22 Sept 1885 ·Page 6

https://www.newspapers.com/image/31357589/?terms=%22hiram%20smith%22%20&match=1

A STRICKEN FAMILY.

TWO DEATHS WITHIN A WEEK

The Funeral of Mrs. Grace Smith Shreve To Be Held To-morrow.

The remains of Mrs. Grace Smith Shreve, who died Saturday, will be buried to-morrow afternoon in the family lot at Cave Hill cemetery. The funeral will be held from the residence, 1221 Fourth avenue, at 2:30 o'clock to-morrow afternoon, and the pall-bearers will be: Messrs. Andrew Cowan, Marc Mundy, James M. Fetter, George G. Brown, George Forman, William P. Booker, Ed Bowen, Thomas C. Timberlake, John E. Norris and Pack Thomas.

The funeral will be conducted by the Rev. Drs. Kerfoot, Whitsitt and Pickard, the deceased having been a constant member of the Baptist church. Mrs. Shreve was the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. Hiram Smith, two of Louisville's oldest and most respected citizens. Had she lived but a few days longer, she would have celebrated the twenty-sixth anniversary of her wedding. She leaves a husband and two children, Hiram Smith and Corinna Brashear. Her mother, Mrs. Hiram Smith, preceded her to the grave but a few days, having been buried in Bowling Green, Ky., last Wednesday, by the side of her husband, at the advanced age of eighty-six. Both decedents were the victims of pneumonia, Mrs. Shreve having contracted it while in the discharge of her duties to her mother.

While Mrs. Smith was unconscious for the last two days of her illness, and did not notice the absence of her daughter, Mrs. Shreve was in full possession of her senses to the last, and, knowing full well she could not recover, called her husband and children to her bedside, and, addressing some remark to each, bade them goodbye, and asked them to meet her in the great beyond.

The deceased was in the prime of life, being but forty-three years old and was the joy of the little household, which has been deprived of two of its members in one week. The daughter of Mrs. Shreve, Miss Corinna, had just gone South, visiting some relatives when she was called home on this sad errand. Carriages will be at the residence Tuesday to convey any friends of the family to the cemetery.

The Courier-Journal, 30 Mar 1896 ·Page 8

https://www.newspapers.com/image/30194632/?terms=%22Grace%20shreve%22%20&match=1

MRS. W. HIRAM SMITH DEAD.

Her Remains Will Be Taken To Bowling Green For Interment.

Mrs. W. Hiram Smith, eighty-six years of age, died last night at her residence, 1221 Fourth avenue, of double pneumonia. She had been ill only since yesterday a week ago, when she was attacked by the grip, which rapidly developed into the malady from which she died. Since Saturday she had been unconscious and remained in that condition until the end. The deceased was Miss Bettie Garnett and was born January 6, 1810, at Franklin county, La. The family from which she descended was one of the oldest and most prominent in that State. A daughter, Mrs. R. S. Shreve, who resides in the same house in which the death occurred, is the only surviving child. Mrs. Shreve is also dangerously ill with pneumonia, and for this reason the remains of Mrs. Smith can be viewed by the friends and relatives of the deceased only this afternoon. To-morrow morning at 8 o'clock the remains will be sent to Bowling Green, where they will be interred by the side of the husband of the deceased, who has been dead a number of years.

The Courier-Journal, 24 Mar 1896 ·Page 6

https://www.newspapers.com/image/30194556/?terms=%22hiram%20smith%22%20&match=1

These are very helpful, Kate! Thank you so much for joining me in the rabbit hole.  :-)
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I take it to mean that James R. McGowan adopted the name William Hiram Smith and he married Elianor Parry who adopted the name Elizabeth Garnett Smith (or possibly adopted the name Elizabeth Garnett and then became Smith by marriage). The entry says that James was from Scotland and Elianor was from Wales.

I don't think the entry says or implies anything about when, where or why either of them adopted these other names or whether they were adopted by families of those names.

It's definitely odd and there's no other entry in the book that uses that term.
by Regan Conley G2G6 Mach 4 (47.1k points)
Yes, this is how I was understanding it too.  I didn't think to check the number of times the phrase "Smith by adoption" or even "by adoption" were used in the book.  That was a good idea!  I agree, it's strange that this single entry is the only time in 966 pages that it's used.

Thank you for taking the time to think with me. :-)
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It seems to me that often times some immigrants did choose to change their name for various reasons, often just to make things easier. And as it explains in this article I found " Many wanted to become Americans as fast as possible so they changed their style of clothes and adopted a more American name." So it does seem to me, that it's just a manner of speaking, as to the reason for the name change status for documentation purposes.

by Living MacKenzie G2G6 (8.7k points)

Thank you for the informative link, Carolyn.  I'm laughing as I write this of course but the section about the whimsical reasons a person might have changed their name is sort-of terrifying to those of us trying to follow a lineage, don't you think? I mean, how are we supposed to untangle that?

Boy do I !! 

I have been down the rabbit hole on my 4th great grandfather with a last name of MacKenzie, or McKenzie, or McKinzie, and I have read every so often just Menzie is used. On top of this, his wife is Eliza Reid, or Reed, or Read, with a first name possibly being used as Elizabeth.... And that is just on the paternal side. On the maternal side I have Degnan, or Duignan, or Deignan, or Dignan, or Dignam, or Duigenan     

Now I really feel lucky to have only (discovered) this one couple with name discrepancies (so far).  You really have your hands full!

Great gif! :-D

Hahaha I have been hearing that sentence since my twins were born when my oldest was just 15 months old, guess the universe has it out for me! surprise laugh

laugh I'd say the universe definitely has you in its sights in a very good way.

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