I have been able to figure out this so far, colorwise!
{| border="1" cellpadding="4"
|+ '''Ira Draper in the 1870 Census Richardson County, Nebraska
|- bgcolor=#e1f0b4
| Name || Relationship || Sex || Age || Status || Occupation || Birth Place
|}
Sooo, I think you could change an individual row or maybe each cell. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm!
Right now, the way I make the person I want to stand out is by making the text in each cell BOLD