When entering data for "a spouse" could we also add a box for partners.

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When entering data for "a spouse" could we also add a box for partner.  Since GBLT persons don't usually label their partners as spouses but partners? They are nbot usually married.
in Policy and Style by Jo Grasso G2G6 (9.9k points)
You might consider spelling out the acronym; not everyone knows what GBLT is (I don't), or maybe a link?  Is it the same thing as LGBT?

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If the request is to have a new database field or link created, this will probably not happen according to the Help pages. The intent is to keep as much of the information as possible in the biography (text area), not to mention all of the other changes that have to happen to support a new field or relationship link (see the link for information).

There is however guidance on how to handle Non-Traditional Families, and/or Unmarried Parents. A key factor to consider is that even if they may not have been recognized as legally married, they may be considered legal partners, which we would consider the same thing.

The best option, in my opinion, is that you should use the biography to explain non-traditional family structures and simply use links to any parents or children that don't neatly fit in the family tree.

In short, the the general consensus has been that if you feel your long-term relationship could be described as a marriage, (common-law, civil union, civil partnership, domestic partnership, de facto) you should probably be listed as spouses even if your relationship does not carry the legal rights and duties normally assigned to spouses wherever you live. The only place this will get tricky is where children is involved, since our ancestry and research is more focused on genetic (blood) connections.

by Steven Harris G2G6 Pilot (760k points)
selected by Peggy Watkins
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I would love this.  I would like to connect myself to my non-biological father that helped raise me, despite the fact he and my mother never married.

He was still a huge part of my life and I'd like to honor the fact he was my dad.  Adding a non-married partner box would solve this immediately.
by Living Botkin G2G6 Mach 4 (40.1k points)
Information about how you were raised by your non-biological father should be inserted into your own profile.

You could then add a profile for your non-biological father, and provide a link from the text area of your profile to his profile.

You could do the same in reverse too.  Add a profile for your non-biological father, stating that he never married, your mother but he did accept you as his son, then link the text of his profile to your profile.

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