May God bless you a thousand times! It is often visible that beginners don't take time out to read "how to" books on genealogy. After all it takes time to read and you are in a hurry, and of course ALL the information is at your fingertips on the web.
1. There are many “how to” books out there on basic aspects of genealogy research. EVERYONE should read at least one. No one has the time to write you a book on the internet to help you find your ancestors (what you get is a sentence or paragraph, while a book may have a whole chapter on the subject). I see a lot of people who want to help but they do not really know what they are doing – often the blind leading the blind. If your local library doesn’t have any genealogy “how to” books then try to get them by interlibrary loan. You must understand the basics and terminology of your craft. All your research cannot be done on the internet.
A very few titles for basic research are:
Val Greenwood's RESEARCHER'S GUIDE TO AMERICAN GENEALOGY (sometimes referred to as the genealogist’s bible)
Norman Wright's BUILDING AN AMERICAN PEDIGREE, which is no longer in print but very good so check your used book dealers.
KNOW YOUR ANCESTORS by Ethel W. Williams.
SEARCHING FOR YOUR ANCESTORS by Gilbert H. Doane.
SHAKING YOUR FAMILY TREE: A BASIC GUIDE TO TRACING YOUR FAMILY'S GENEALOGY by Ralph J. Crandall.
TRACING YOUR ANCESTRY by F. Wilbur Helmbold.
UNPUZZLING YOUR PAST by Emily A. Croom
YOUR FAMILY HISTORY by Allan J. Lichtman
THE TROUBLESHOOTER'S GUIDE TO DO-IT-YOURSELF GENEALOGY by W. Daniel Quillen
SECRETS OF TRACING YOUR ANCESTORS by W. Daniel Quillen
THE SOURCE: A GUIDEBOOK TO AMERICAN GENEALOGY, ed. by Loretto Denis Szucs & Sandra Hargreaves Luebking
There are also specific books for specific areas of research such as A GUIDE TO LIBRARY RESEARCH METHODS by Thomas Mann, or TRACE YOUR GERMAN ROOTS ONLINE by James M. Beidler and MEDIEVAL GENEALOGY by Paul Chambers.
Many of the books may be out of date especially for locations of items, but the basics are there and be sure to read several as each author may focus on different aspects of research. Good luck & have fun.