Just an update, in case your following? I have done a cleanup. Turns out neither of the "Mary" spouses belonged to John Stanley Sr. One was the dau. of Elijah Stanley, she actually married William Gallimore. And the other has turned out to be very much an Uncertain Existence profile. Marvin Lander's research on the subject contained some conjecture on what the name of Alfred Muir Stanley's mother could be. And I guess it was taken as fact, used to produce a profile for her on Find A Grave etc....and the internet now is full of this misinformation...and still spreading. As far as I can see John Stanley Sr. may have had a second wife, however her name is not known. No children have been proven with this supposed second wife. Have done my best to lay out the evidence for it all!