Sorry, no usable hits found when searching
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All obvious archives, probably just like you already did: wiewaswie, geldersarchief, streekarchiefbommelerwaard
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Amsterdam archive, pre-1811 marriages and deaths.
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Delpher
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Family trees
Two Dutch family trees I found have, just like you, only her baptism date.
In Delpher I found (searching 'heerewaarden') two newspaper stories, one reporting river flooding (1784), the other war (1794) and infectuous diseases (1804 & 1805). It could very well be Adriaantje was an unreported victim of one of these disasters, or ran off with a soldier.
The only strategy left is to search record collections of province, regional, and city archives . I'll get to it, but that will take some time...