Hi Sue,
Welcome to WikiTree! Glad you were able to connect with the G2G forum.
The best way to connect with an ancestor is to post a message on their profile, for the Profile Manager to respond to. However, if the person of interest doesn't currently have a WikiTree profile, posting here on G2G will hopefully provide you with information or leads.
It's very helpful when you provide the information you currently know. A location is often critical information. From the information you've provided, it's only possible, but could this be your ancestor?
https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Stueve-26
Edit: And as mentioned by other WikiTree members, you should Upgrade you membership and help expand your family line.