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WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Until next week, flourish!
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.7m points)
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Nope, no ice. Tylenol Extra Strength seems to work though. cheeky

Yeah that'll do it. =D
Pip, sorry to hear about your shoulder and lack of comfort dog.  Reframe the predicament (about the yard work) into supervision is a good thing.
Pip and Marty, you guys know that the male brain. Refuses to accept the fact that either you are physically or mentally incapable of completing certain tasks due to age or lack of knowledge. I have the same problem. Also, nobody else can do it right. You are the only person that can do it your way. Everyone else sucks at it. Yard work, carpentry, plumbing, car repair. Never hire anyone to do something the right way, until either you can't physically do it, or you set the yard on fire.

Yep, Paul, and I have actually set the lawn on fire before.

Pip, yes definitely bring a jacket with you when you come in January. While we don't have freezing weather like the east, we do have mornings when it dips below 32°F!
I want to set my yard on fire

Fun to watch. Make a video if it and send it to me! laugh

If I do, then that means I have to write a song. To be the soundtrack of my burning yard,

laughlaughlaugh Touché, Paul!

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This week:

  • Confirmed a DNA match (2C1R) for my wife that I had been trying to figure out for a while. Ended up working on newly found collateral lines.
  • Finally merged the 3g grandfather Gain Robinson profiles in my wife's family, which was a major brick wall breakthrough a month or so back.
  • Found a bunch of newspaper hits (Chronicling America) for my wife's great-grandfather. I have to work on adding all the citations and quotes. His background is part of a mystery that I helped solve recently through DNA. Still working on filling out the details of this mystery. 
  • I got confirmation on a negative DNA match for a male Weddington descendant. He's from the North Carolina Weddington family. This is great news as it is a start of confirming my theory (described on the Weddington Name Study), that the North Carolina family and Kentucky / Virginia Weddington families are not related. More DNA tests and comparisons need to be done to fully confirm the theory. A negative DNA match can be just as important as a positive match.
  • Worked on various other collateral lines for me and my wife's family
  • Keeping up with profile work on the Weddington Name Study
  • I did some work on Huddle profiles, which is one of the spelling variations of Hottel. I would really like to create a One Name Study for Hottel, as there is a great online resource for it and I'm the top contributor for the name.
  • Slowly re-working the Melungeon page for the Appalachia Project. I have some further ideas to implement still.
by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (523k points)

WOW! Eric, you shame me. I should be doing more than I am. It's not that I don't have time; I'm just splitting it up with my favorite pasttime: reading. Finished two books this week.

Really  nice work on your Weddington Name Study!

Now I'm jealous. I should be doing more reading! laugh

Hahaha! Eric, it's always been a passion of mine. My mom was a reading teacher for many years.
Reading is always interesting, both for the joy of what we get out of it and as a topic.

I did my thesis on Reading, how it happens, why some people have such problems with the process of reading, why some methods of teaching reading work better than others, and other techniques that can help when it doesn't go well.
I have to ask Eric how can you fit so much in a week. Have you developed a 30-hour day or an eight-day week?

Seriously though thank you for the link to LoC. I now have a new research project to explore.
I'm on practically daily, and I usually just keep my head down and do my thing.

Also, I keep track of useful info, links, goals and stuff on the Scratch Pad on the home page.

Also: it sounds like a lot of work because it looks like it's all over the place. But each item in itself is not that bad.

Thank you ! I seem to forget about Chronicling America and I am so glad you mentioned it. It is (when I remember) one of my favorite go tos.
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Thank You for hosting the Chat Pip.

Musings from The North Coast.

Weather, Quite nice actually.

On the home front, Gradually starting to feel better but we were exposed to COVID this last week, The grandson came over and the next day tested positive for COVID. Wednesday we had a practice drill for the Perry Nuclear Power plant that I participated in but other than that I have done nothing with the radio club. We have also been looking forward to the county fair that starts next Wednesday and both Diane and I have plans to help out for the first 3 days of that. I have managed to do a bit of genealogy but nothing to brag about
by Dale Byers G2G Astronaut (1.7m points)
Dale, do you have some of those rapid tests for Covid. That's what I used to confirm I had it a month ago. I'm really hoping you nor your wife have it.

The County fair sounds fun. We don't have one here, but I wish we did.
Pip the home tests come up negative for me but I still feel bad. This year is the bicentennial of "The Great Geauga County Fair", https://www.geaugafair.com/ . Normally it is a 5 day fair but this year it is 6 days. I will be working the first 3 days for sure but could possibly work other days if I wished. This year admission is free to all on Wednesday and free for Senior citizens and veterans on Friday as well.
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Good morning Pip and the weekend chatters!

Weather:

  • It's been a week of rain, rain, rain.
  • Currently, it is 75ºF and overcast.

New App:

  • CC7 Table - This app will list all your connections in the first 7 degrees.  However, it does not list any private profiles or profiles that are connected beyond the private profile.  Also, the app will indicate missing parents and possible missing spouses and children. Also, the columns are sortable by clicking on the Column headers.
by Tommy Buch G2G Astronaut (1.9m points)
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Howdy, Tommy. Great to hear from you again! 68° and overcast here, too. Expecting rain today, but I gotta get out and order some mulch for our landscapers.

The CC7 table is a slow runner!
That's my biggest gripe about all of these external apps: They can't show Private profiles, or go past them. To me this is the biggest weakness of all external apps, and why I generally don't use them. I wish many of them were integrated with WikiTree so they can be more useful.
Tommy, a full 74 people in my CC7 are those who died young. (Counted the stickers)
I tried your app and it did point me to places where I can make an impact where I had stopped and then forgotten to finish.  So the CC7 table was helpful although slow to load.
I just sorted by age and realized that I am connected to two Centenarians.

I have 15 children that died young.
Like Gurney I realized some places where I can add and get more connections to my CC7. Useful app!
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The weather in Colorado has cooled quite a bit and we have been getting much needed rain. Not the flooding kind but the good kind. So things are very green right now even though we remain and watering restrictions.  We harvested all the peaches and apples with the exception of one one. That one is running a month behind the others. BUT. The peaches are are big!  And they are getting bigger so this next round will be exciting.

On genealogy, I am still working the CC7 and making a lot of progress on the in-law side of things while staying away from the living. I’m also doing a lot of cemetery category maintenance.  It amazes me just how many cemeteries still exist that need to be created just within a few states in the USA. There is a huge amount of work still needed in this arena.
by Gurney Thompson G2G6 Pilot (471k points)

Gurney, I'm goin to have to get me a peach tree. I guess I'll call it the Gurney Tree since it's your idea! laugh

You're not kidding about the number of cemeteries cats and work needing to be done. Pam Dale has been adding cats for us in the Appalachia Project. Nice to have someone who knows what they are doing.

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Hi from Alabama.  Weather is pretty good at the moment.  Haven't gotten much done on WT this week.  Just got back from vacation.  Class reunion in WV and visiting family.   Did a lot of research on family with my aunt.  She has books filled with obituaries she cut out of the newspaper.   These are photo albums she has put the obituaries in.  She has them in alphabetical order by last name. She has been collecting obituaries for probably about 30 years.  She has hundreds if not thousands.  Gold mine for research as there are names of relatives and usually birth and death dates.
by Sharon Haynes G2G6 Mach 2 (24.5k points)
Wow, she sounds like one of us, with all her organizing and attention to detail. That is truly a gold mine!
Sharon, my grandmother was a great collector of obituaries. I was able to get them some years ago, and they really helped to increase the spread of my family research.

I don't know if you are a Tide fan, but we already have the first game against Utah State in our phones to remind us. September 3rd! We can't wait.
I'm sure many towns had newspapers like ours that carried local "gossip" columns of doings in the early 1900s.  Then obituaries were carried also.  Eventually our local doings quit but the obituaries continued.  Now they are charging for them to be printed so many people have discontinued them and they are on the computer.  My mother in law had many obituaries saved, and a big yes, they are a gold mine.  It is interesting to see how women were early on ignored as to names.  i.e.  Mrs. (husbands name only) or
just survived by a wife and then a list of several named sons, and two daughters, no names for daughters.
A museum about 60 mins drive from here has digitised 11 local newspapers and another 30 or so from the rest of Canada, put them on their website, they are searchable and each article or announcement can be copied or downloaded. It is a true treasure trove of information.
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Good morning!  Thanks for hosting us again, Pip!

It's cooled down a bit this last week in the western San Fernando Valley - mid-90sF instead of low 100sF, though the predictors say we'll be up again today.  I got a catalog in the mail yesterday filled with sweaters and parkas ... help!

Today, building management tells us they'll start tearing out 2 trees which are presently giving my corner of the building a little much-needed shade - so, please close all windows and blinds before 8 AM.  I can hardly wait.  Then, next week, they're scheduling plumbers to come in and install (finally!) water-conserving fixtures.  So, many, many distractions to come.

On other fronts, I've managed to find a Rabbit Hole this past week.  I capitalize that, because it's one of those that just goes on and on and on and on.  The Harpers of Hart County, KY are a mess and I got involved in this, I think (not sure, at this point, of anything), while trying to sort out a Logsdon mess thereabouts.  I'm sorry, but does everybody have to have a daughter named Sarah???  Well, I did get disambiguation sections set up for two Sarah E Harpers, born in 1836, who lived within a couple of farms of each other in 1850 (and whom do I thank that that wasn't in 1840? I might still be trying to chase that particular critter!

I did manage some minor cleanup on my Chebacco Parish OPS, but I really need to get up there and transcribe the pay roster for the Chebacco militia unit which responded to the Lexington Alert in 1775, so I can work on profiles for them ... when I'm not chasing Logsdons and other elusive kin.  But that involves setting up a FSP and FSPs and I don't get along well ...

I look forward to hearing what all everybody else has been doing.  (I'd also like to hear about low temperatures and successful ancestor-hunts, please.)
by Susan Anderson G2G6 Pilot (122k points)

Susan, I had to laugh out loud about that catalogue of parkas and sweaters! But, I'm not laughing about the work being done around your home. That's always a pain.

My wife's Kentucky families are rabbit holes for me. Must be something about Kentucky (Mindy's fault, right? laugh)

Or perhaps Kentucky breeds special rabbits, just for us to chase.  I'm willing to believe anything at this point.  Does Mindy breed rabbits??laugh

She does on WikiTree! laughlaugh

 laughlaugh, Pip!

Sorry, that sounds so frustrating. But if we weren't chasing bunnies what would we do? (I can think of about a hundred different things lol)

Yeah.... more bunnies. laugh

Lets all chase the bunnies out of Pips lilies!
What bunnies?  The lily bunnies ate the lilies, last I heard, and were off to other pastures.  (Maybe they found the rabbit hole I chased into Pennsylvania last night.)

Exactly right, Susan. nary a lily left! laugh

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Hello Fellow Wiki Tree Peoples, Weather here has been pretty mild compared to last month in Middle Tennessee, but still on the warm side, 

I have been working on a bit on trying to get my CC7 up I started on George Washington Moore and his wife Darthula Templeton Moore , George is a descendant of Nancy Mourning Denton Moore, which she is a sister to my 4th great grandfather Jeremiah Denton well some of George's children and grandchildren, connected to other ancestors to James Anderson Walker whose daughter married a Haston, his cousin had married a child of George's which James is my first cousin 4 times removed , so some of these profiles could use some improving so I am working on them some ,  also I have a Denton cousin who lives in Oklahoma , who found a picture of his great grandfather, so I helped him upload it to his profile ,  John Denton , I also have been adding the Appalachia stickers, catagories to profiles that qualify,  If you have not checked out the Appalachia project  check here  Appalachia Project if you are not sure what states or counties qualify you can check here  Counties of Appalachia it would be worth you time to check it out , we also have discord to chat , or ask questions, ask for assistance, even if you are new or not familiar with working with projects we have plenty of very helpful members that will help you so I do encourage you to please check us out ,  I also been working on some of the Hatfield and McCoy profiles Floyd McCoy so thats been interesting to learn more about the Feud and the people involved , what actually happened , 

by Janine Isleman G2G6 Pilot (103k points)
You've been incredibly busy! Give me a shout if you need any Hatfield cleanup. I work on them off and on.

I really enjoy having our Discord chat for the project, Janine. Answers are immediate and helpful. Bonus: We are all related to each other in some way, some closer than I thought! So, we get to yak about family stuff, too!

The Discord chat for this project does make it feel as though we're participating in a community.
Yes, it absolutely does!
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¡Buenos días a todos from the Old Pueblo! It is 7:30am and 81F (27.2C) with and expected high of 95F (35C) and with a 15% chance of rain. We continue to have monsoons several days this past week most of this past week and despite the exterminator being her last week, bugs have put there flack jackets on and have invaded my home en masse. My daughter called today to tell me that they had a monsoon of their own in Milwaukee. She was driving to school and said she white-knuckled it all the way given the severity of the storm.

 

At last, I have sent our sleep paper with all of my edits to my co-leader colleague. It was quite a task to pare down information on disrupted circadian rhythms, night eating that leads to obesity, energy drinks that lead to diabetes and disrupted daytime sleep, cognitive and mental health issues related to nights, then cover drowsy driving and costs to the organization in terms of patient safety, burnout, absenteeism, turnover, etc. I created a table that covers these diverse areas listing the first author of each article and findings in a condensed sentence. I figure that managers and organizations want the bottom line without having to read every word so this table will give them that. Now while Chris does his edits, I have to create two more tables, one that covers low, moderate and high cost interventions for the night nurse and the other with the same framework (low, moderate high cost) for managers and health care organizations. I need to finish these two tables and get them to my colleague by this Sunday as I still need to write my presentation for the wedding.

 

I had an appointment this week with the pain specialist. The injections in my spine two weeks ago only provided some minor relief. I wake up in the morning and the pain in my lower spine is so great that I ‘slither’ out of bed like a snake. The humidity has not helped the situation any. The plan is for me to return around the third week in September after I return from my niece’s wedding. The doctor will inject medication in the ‘facet joints in the lumbar and sacral spine (both sides). I hope that this will provide relief for up to six months. The backup plan, if not, is to ‘burn’ the spinal nerves that branch off these regions.

 

There is usually a waiting time at the doctor’s office. Generally, I take one of my many Sudoku books to keep me occupied. I was going through my Kindle and came across a book that I purchased over a year ago titled I, Eliza Hamilton by Susan Holloway Scott. It’s roughly 500 pages and will take several weeks to complete given all my other tasks; however, I do find it difficult to put down! For a change, it is written from the perspective of a ‘Founding Mother.’ She was Eliza Schuyler, who became the wife of Alexander Hamilton. It is interesting read her telling of the tensions between ‘His Excellency, General Washington’ and his army’s need for funds to equip the soldiers and Congress (located in Philadelphia) not appropriating ample funds because they feel Washington and the army should get by on what has been given. I have gotten as far as Lincoln’s defeat at Charleston to General Clinton. The conversation Eliza has with Benedict Arnold’s wife Peggy foretells that I will be reading about his betrayal at West Point soon. Eliza’s marriage to Hamilton should be coming up soon as well. It reads like a novel, yet the history is very accurate. I did some reading up on the author and apparently, she received a degree in History from Brown.

 

 

I am still working on Baldwin profiles. Specifically, I have gone through all of my 8th great grandparents, Henry and Phebe (Richardson) Baldwin’s children, making sure that they have biographies and at least one inline source. Since last week’s chat, I have focused on my 7th great grandparents, Henry and Abigail (Fiske) Baldwin and their children and their children’s children. I have found a few with very little information in their biographies and more than a few that listed ‘Ancestry.com’ as the source! That is all...just ‘Ancestry.com!’ Once I finish with Henry of Woburn’s line, I will move onto his brother, John Baldwin.

Some good news! I heard from my colleagues at the University of Guanajuato. We are back to teaching in the classroom! I will be flying to León in November. I am organizing some additional guest presentations so that the university gets their pesos’ worth.

 

It is very hard to believe that this is the last weekend in August 2022. I wish all of you a fun, healthy and productive week. Thanks Pip for wrangling the Chatters.

by Carol Baldwin G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
Sounds like a busy week, Carol! Be sure to post a link to your sleep paper when it gets published. I'd like to be sure to send it to my step-daughter as she is in nursing school.
Hi Eric, it is so great to know that we will be adding another valuable member to our nursing clan in a few short years. I will definitely send a copy, but it will be a while yet. Once fully done we have to submit, then bite our nails for acceptance or rejection, then revise and submit to another journal if rejected, then wait for publication. Your step-daughter might be out of nursing school by then. The thing is that while we focus on nurses working night shift, this information is relevant to ANY night shift workers...police, firefighters, EMTs, factory, etc. It's just that nurses and other health professionals have the lives of patients in their hands, thus patient and public health safety and well as the health care worker!
Then my wife would be interested in it also. She spent nearly 20 years as emergency dispatcher for police, fire (mostly), federal police (briefly), and air medical transport (dispatching helicopters, planes, and ground crews too). She worked practically all night shifts during this time. It's only real recently that she got of the industry and is adjusting to daytime.

Kudos! Mark another thing off your list (the paper).

I really hope that your visits to the doctor will resolve at least some of your pain issues. I can't imagine living with constant pain. Even my should will heal up in a few months.

I find profiles all the time with just "Ancestry.com" or "Family Search". What's frustrating is that usually there are so many sourced, even on those sites, that could have been included.

August FLEW by. September is chock full of stuff to take care of. I'm ready for a vacation.... oh wait! I AM getting one in January! cheeky

Hello coz! I read My Dear Hamilton written by Stephanie Dray & Laura Kamoie a few years ago and enjoyed it. Eliza certainly led an interesting life. I read it for research. LOL

John Mathews's father-in-law was Dudley Woodbridge who was business partners with Harman Blennerhassett. Harman was deeply involved with Aaron Burr and there was a raid on his mansion on Blennerhassett Island in the middle of the Ohio River. Thank goodness Burr's plans for a separate nation were thwarted.

You've gone and done it again, cousin!  I just purchased the Kindle versions of "I, Eliza Hamilton" AND "My Dear Hamilton"!  Oh, the paths our dear family of Wikitree Chatters leads us down!

Hi Candyce, be sure and let me know your thought on I, Eliza Hamilton. Have a great weekend.

I'm interested in this paper too. It will come in handy during nursing school and beyond!

By the way, I'm doing evening shifts and they are interesting especially when the residents wish to stay up and chat as you try to do report at 10:30pm.

The life of a trained medication aide.
Hi Eileen, I will be happy to send. I am starting a list because there are three people who have interest and I won't remember everyone when the time comes because I am old.

You and the younger nurses are the ones who can make a difference. We are working on the Night Nurses Bill of Rights (and for other night workers...EMTs, firefighters, cops, etc.). Most of my work in nursing was nights so I can speak from experience...especially being a single parent with a grade school age daughter at the time. I did work PMs and liked that shift very much. The upside is that I could go home around 11:30pm, sleep and still be available to my daughter without worrying about getting home to get her off to school, housework, cooking, etc. and figuring out how I was going to get some sleep!

I think of you week to week knowing that you are working on your degree! Have a great week, Eileen!
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Hi from southern Ontario,

Chez moi/at home: what's happening here? It rained! We have had about 2 inches of rain since last weekend, more than in the previous 8 weeks. Other places just north of us, got much more up to 6 inches of rain in an hour or two. Yesterday we had a tornado warning, they seldom happen where we are but are not uncommon further away in rural areas. 

It has been an eventful week. we signed up for a 4 night astronomy course on Thursday nights in September at the grounds of a local heritage house, first settled in 1818. We booked tickets to see The Shark is Broken a comedy about the making of the first Jaws movie. 

Our friends who live in Regina, Saskatchewan will now be referred to as our friends who live in Procter, British Columbia, a small town in the mountains in the Kootenay region, of south-east BC with 650 permanent residents. They decided city life had to go when someone tried to steal their teardrop trailer, from the apartment parking lot. That was after the mail boxes were broken into and the front door to the building jimmied open. 

It's also good for us, our travel plans for next year include the mountains and the west coast, we have 2 sets of people to visit and places where we can stay on Vancouver Island, so this adds a place in the mountains. Last time we were on the west coast was 2009. 

Genealogy WT: I finished updating all the profiles for my side of the family, that took 4 months in total if I leave out June. 

Alton Cemetery project: Cousin Sharon and I will be back working on this project in September. Robbie has been in touch with the Cemetery Steward because 6 years after Robbie’s dad died, https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Dods-238 we are finally going to bury his ashes in the family plot. As we have decided that we will be buried at Alton we need to buy a plot 

The Steward, Sean has all the burial records including those for people who either never had a headstone or were buried with someone else, or who had a small flat marker that has disappeared into the ground. And he really likes to talk!

He is a local and shares some connections with Robbie, exactly what I will find out eventually. Find a Grave has 1447 records, but there are people missing, some are recorded in some online trees as having died at Alton, before it was called Alton. Many are children who died before the 1851/2 census and have no sources at all.

What else: I read Thirteen Moons, a novel written by Charles Frazier (author of Cold Mountain). It is about the Cherokee Nation and their removal from their tribal homelands in the 1830s.  It is a topic I knew nothing about and found both interesting and horrifying. 

Its one of the books I got at the library book sale for $1cdn. 

And that’s my story for today.

by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (751k points)
So, M, not having to water your garden now? I bet you are glad of that!

Kootenay I have seen spelled differently (see the name in Idaho). Must be of Native American origin, right?

If Sean has all the records of burials at Alton, then that would be a goldmine of info. Keep us posted on what you find out.

Cherokee removal: I have records of some of my family members being involved in the round up. Another one of those things I have to deal with in a not ideal family.
This what Wikipedia says Kootenay: It takes its name from the Kootenay River, which in turn was named for the Kutenai First Nations people.

Or according to someone who is researching place names in the area, there are 34 ways to spell Kootenay (or is it Kootenai?)

https://www.castlegarnews.com/community/place-names-thirty-four-ways-to-spell-kootenay-or-is-it-kootenai/
Here's the one I was thinking of, M:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kootenai,_Idaho

I know some folks there.
It's about 86 miles as the crow or whoever flies from Kootenai to Procter, and it looks to me that the mountains are the same range but probably called different names.
The Trail of Tears was a horrible event in our history. Glad you plucked up the courage to read about it.
I had heard the term, Trail of Tears some time ago, but thought it was later and further west, perhaps in the Colorado area after the civil war.

Were there similar events in other places, at other times?
We needn't look far for the dispersal of the Haudenosaunee.  There remain branches in New York, Ontario, Quebec, Wisconsin, and Oklahoma.
M, I don't think there's another one. This one covered North & South Carolina, Georgia, and Tennessee. In the 1830s.
M, if you haven't read Killers of the Flower Moon, I highly recommend it. It's about 1920s Oklahoma and the murders of members of the Osage tribe for their mineral rights and oil wells.

Hi M, we learned about the Train of Tears when I was in college...a cultural diversity course. If you haven't already done so, I would recommend Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee by Dee Brown. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bury_My_Heart_at_Wounded_Knee

Carol we have a copy of Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee and I have read it.
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Good morning and greetings from Everett, Washington, on a cloudy Friday. I sleep with the window open under a quilt-in-progress.

Tuesday night, my husband's mother died. Helen Summitt was 91. She had been through a similar episode 1 1/2 years ago, when her blood sugar spiked. But this time Chris had a feeling it was going to be the end. He visited her that morning and prayed the rosary with her. She moved her lips to the prayers. After each decade he made an act of contrition to focus her mind. She asked for her late husband, for her mother-in-law and for our son. Dementia has made it hard to communicate for years. Although she had spent a sleepless night, she calmed down later that day. At about 7 p.m. her breathing slowed and then stopped altogether.

Chris went down there and helped remove her from her home, his childhood home, so many layers of memories, for the last time. The remains will be cremated and she will be laid to rest beside her husband here in Everett. All the arrangements were premade so everything kicked in. The memorial service will be here at St. Mary Magdalen in Everett, where Helen was in charge of the funeral committee for many years.

I am allowing Chris to talk to me as he wishes to. He has shown emotion which is mourning for his own past self also. It's the peak of his involvement with the Lighthouse Festival, so he is riding that wave in "war mode," typical for him, but come October I have to watch that he doesn't get sick, which is usually what happens to him after a crisis.

Last night I put together a very complicated set of minutes after the Historical Society board meeting. I forgot one item so I corrected and resent them. Due to absences, the board approved three sets of minutes, boom, boom, boom, with no further additions or corrections.

The Pomeranian/Chihuahua, Billy, who adores me, has been to the vet for another x ray. Not really necessary, because we know what the problem is. He's like a 70-year old man who weighs 375 pounds and needs a total knee replacement. Not only does he have the congenital patella luxation issue, but that knee joint has severe arthritis and he's putting all his weight on his front legs. He will be on anti-inflammatories for the rest of his life, plus starting a round of daily injections. Also, no more soft-hearted goodie-dispensing meals. I am dedicated now to a regimen of canned dog food, portions controlled, plus lots more vegetables (he loves broccoli stems) and apples. He would feel so much better if he could lose just 5 pounds.

I am helping out Project Linus at the Evergreen Fair in Monroe on Monday. We get together in the quilt barn and have folks, mostly kids, take nine 4" squares of fabric and design a quilt block which we then sew together. They don't get to keep the block but they have the satisfaction that it was done for needy kids in Snohomish County. Meanwhile my two offspring will be exploring the fair. I will contribute some of my own 4-inchers from home.

Oh yeah, genealogy. Well, I worked on the Brownsville, Oregon One Place Study. I found a book bound in the McFarlane tartan in which my Dad, in his tiny backsloping handwriting, recorded stories his parents had told him about Brownsville's early history. I added a lot of those stories to the people's profiles. I have a lot of my uncle Cecil's rambling letters on history and family history (handwriting not nearly so perfect) and his attempt to identify everyone in town in the group photo of great-grandpa Rev. Robe's 1904 golden wedding celebration. Lately I have returned to tracking down distant Kirk cousins in Montgomery/Giles Counties in SW Virginia.

I am very thankful for the Weekend Chat. Thank you for the recognition this week of 200K G2G points. It all comes of just plugging away and filling in the puzzle pieces. You all have a cool week with a little rain.
by Margaret Summitt G2G6 Pilot (325k points)
Our condolences Margaret. Dementia is so cruel. I've seen it rob too many people of their sense of self. It is just as devastating for the people close to them. Please make sure that everyone takes the time to heal from your loss
Condolences for your and your husband's loss. It's always a tough situation.
Margaret, I am so sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. May light perpetual shine upon her.

My dad died of dementia (Alzheimer's). It was a long haul, taking care of him at home as long as we could. He passed away similar to your MIL, breathing just slowed and then stopped. He was absolutely non-communicative that last two years. I feel for you and your husband. We at St. pat's will be praying for you all.

I have an old photo, probably from the 1910s, of a group of women on the steps of the old First Presbyterian Church in Charlotte, North Carolina. Not a one of them identified, but I'm betting that my gg-aunt is is one of them.
So sorry for you and your family's loss. It is great that you know to look out for your partner, it is hard to take care of yourself in the midst of grief. Sending hugs to you both.
Hi Margaret, my sincere condolences. I will hold you and your family in Healing Light. You take care!
Condolences to you and your husband. Dementia is definitely cruel. I will remember your mother in law in my prayers during today's retreat.
condolences
+28 votes
Good morning, WikiTree!  It is a beautiful summer day here in Wichita.  I spent last Saturday at the Kansas State Historical Society museum for they are closing next month to totally redo their history exhibits.  I spent from 10 to 2:30 looking at everything and I still did not have enough time to take it all in.  I took lots of photos to read the captions later.  I learned a lot of interesting tidbits about Kansas history that I want to look up more.

Hope everyone's weekend goes well!
by Michelle Enke G2G6 Pilot (430k points)
@Michelle:

Your mention of the Kansas State Historical Society brought to mind a person from our town here in New Hampshire whose son or grandson moved to Kansas and helped found the historical society there.  Could one of your Kansas State Historical Society founders have the last name of Adams?

Was the person named Franklin G. Adams?  Both he and his daughter Abzuga "Zu" Adams were involved with the early history of the society.  In fact, Zu was the society's librarian while her father was the secretary.  She almost took his place upon his death in 1899.  Read more about this fascinating woman through the finding aid for her papers at the society.

https://www.kshs.org/p/zu-adams-collection/13971 

If this isn't the same Adams, please tell me and I will continue the search!

Yes, Michelle.  It was Franklin!  
Here's a link to his family's post-revolutionary family.
Article: Insanity Above Spoonwood Pond

Oh, if I could only travel to the Society to be able to photocopy Zu's diary pages about her father!  Is any part of them available on the internet?
Her fourth diary, from 1908 to 1910, is online at KansasMemory.org

https://www.kansasmemory.org/item/226846

I did not find her other diaries online. Zu has 19 other items on Kansas Memory https://www.kansasmemory.org/category/5869 while her father Franklin has 28 items https://www.kansasmemory.org/category/4404.
Thank you so much, Michelle.  I'll stop bothering you now ... well, at least for a few hours!  LOL!!
Not a problem! I enjoy helping!
Sounds like you had a fantastic trip to the KSHS museum, Michelle. Reminds me I need to get out more. So, now I'm planning a trip to the courthouse here to see what I can dig up. There's a book of "declared insane" there I want to go through. Of course, insane back then more than likely meant dementia, not truely insane.
+30 votes

Greetings to all from beautiful southeastern Arizona. It's been a good monsoon season. Here's a pic I took during last week's library Friends' book sale. Lucky for us the rain held off until after we closed! Look how green the desert is!

desert rain

It's been ages since I've posted, but I've been keeping (somewhat!) busy.

Writing: I finally finished transcribing old documents and got back to revising Book 3. It's now in the hands of several beta readers, and I'm anxiously awaiting their responses. One finished her read and said she loved it. *sigh of relief!*

I'm now working on Book 4. Geesh my original writing style was horrible. *gasp!* Instead of revising, this is more of a new write. It's also necessary to do a lot of fact checking of my previous info. I also have more details about Increase's town of Springfield thanks to those transcriptions.

I still can't conceive how the widowed Dr. managed with a newborn infant and his other daughter only age 2 1/2. Nothing has yielded any clue. How could he make house calls, sometimes traveling 25 miles to visit a patient?

I've now written he took his daughters to his eldest sister Susannah's home in Belpre - 90 miles away from him.

Genealogy: Haven't done much. When I have tried to research anything, I get annoyed at the changes made to FamilySearch. I've given up many times because I find it now difficult to get pertinent info.

Well, I've got to get ready to host at the senior center. Hope all of you have a great weekend!

by Diane Hildebrandt G2G6 Pilot (110k points)
Hi, Diane!  Your monsoon weather is making it humid here, but you're getting all the wet!  No fair!

Your widowed doctor could also have hired a wet nurse for the infant, someone who could watch the toddler, too.
Hello Susan! Cochise County has been downgraded from Drought 3 status. Sorry, it hasn't gotten that far north!

I thought about a wet nurse. Few women were in the wilderness in 1802. I've already portrayed the Dr. as a clean freak. Many settlers lived in bark huts when they first arrived. Just didn't think he'd want his children in someplace like that.
She would probably be a live in.  I understand some women short changed their own babies to make much needed money that way.
Oh, wow, Diane. It really is green there. I bet by the time I get there, it'll all be brown again. What's it like in winter there. Do I need a jacket/sweater?
Hi Cousin, great to hear from you and good to know that you are doing well. We have something to look forward to in January with Pip's visit! I am recommending De Grazia's Gallery in Tucson. It is a museum, art gallery, chapel and cemetery!
+27 votes
I have been out of the Genealogy loop for a little while.  My daughter in law has been on bedrest since May 1st so I have had my two grandsons all during the week and then they would go home on the weekends while my son was home.  Well...we had a baby girl on Wednesday August 24th!  She is perfect and mom and baby are doing great!  Her big bothers just turned 2 and 3 and they really don't want much to do with her.  I am staying with them for the next two weeks or so to give mom a helping hand.  I had some down time at naptime today so I thought I would pop in and say hello.  My weekend will be full of baby girl snuggles and hopefully a little bit of genealogy thrown in.

Have a great weekend!
by Shannon Thomas G2G6 Mach 2 (21.5k points)
Saw your photos of her on Facebook.

Congratulations to your family on the new arrival.
Enjoy your snuggles! Nothing like holding a new baby. The boys will come around when she can walk and talk and play with them.
Congratulations on the newborn's safe arrival.
Congratulations to you, Shannon!!! Someone new to spoil. I'm glad all is well with your daughter-in-law.
+25 votes

Hails and horns, Wikipeeps!

On the genealogy front this week, I got a new picture of my great-grandfather Giuseppe Carrabs. I'll be putting it in his profile soon. For now, I have it in a blog about the timeline of changes that happened in Haverhill and Newburyport. Check it out here: https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2022/08/52-ancestors-week-34-timeline.html

It was an interesting game of tag to be sure to get the pic. I asked my dad and then asked his cousin and then asked another cousin and then asked that cousin's brother. Ahh, family. LOL. Enjoy the blog!

Not much going on on the non genealogy front. Ebay seems to be going okay. But, I have one guy who has yet to pay me eighty bucks. Am canceling his order soon. Sigh...humans vex me. At least I got one prompt payment this week! 

by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (777k points)

did enjoy the blog....  but then again I always do. (Write that book, darn it!) The new photo is great. 

What up with the commune these days?

I'm not sure. But, I am going to e-mail them in September. Thanks for reminding me!

Glad you liked the photo. Someone in the Genealogy Squad group asked if it was a Civil War photo. I was like. "Uhh...No. Giuseppe was born in 1882 and is very, VERY Italian."
+25 votes
Fantastic.......9:00 AM,  mostly clear blue sky, 64F in the shade, on the deck, with a refreshing breeze.......Kathy and I are off to my regular doctor checkup......I do hope he's doing well on such a great day......then conquer the world......where's Cousin Frank.........
by John Thompson G2G6 Pilot (358k points)
Maybe Cousin Frank is at the airport waiting to skydive with you?

Enjoy your weather and have a wonderful weekend, John!

The doctor is doing fine and he wants me to keep up my exercise.....good, time to ask for a prescription to go-cart race.....reluctant, at my age might bump into something and injure my spine.....assured him I can drive it pointing in any direction (left out the part about smacking the wall in '16) and got him enthusiastic, by getting him talking about his muscle car.   Now, getting the news to Cousin Frank, found him out to lunch.....yes, out to lunch.....we met him for lunch and found his new found neighbor, Lou, and he, had been to Agassiz Speedway, a 1/4 mile oval.....and I thought Lou was the one keeping him focused on the airport..........crying

+25 votes

71oF in Rochester, Minnesota. The rain stopped...finally.

My Anatomy and Physiology class is in about 20 minutes so that gives me time to catch up with y'all. 

Pip, the trip to Arizona in January sounds tempting but I think I rather stay in the snow, work and take intensive biology courses. 

I'll be on retreat tomorrow which is greatly needed. 

I went to see my NP yesterday regarding my plantar fascitis and a tiny heel spur. That's what happens when I wear cheap shoes from Target. I bought a pair of Brooks shoes to make up for this ordeal. I was asked to do some exercises and not to be barefoot. On top of it all, I got my first dose of the Hepatitis B Vaccine. 

Classes are going well. 

by Eileen Robinson G2G6 Pilot (207k points)
I hope your new shoes help with your pain. I used to have to keep frozen water bottles to roll under my feet when watching tv or working on the computer. The boots I wore in the military did a number on my feet, so grateful to have wider selection of footwear now!
Eileen, you got a belly laugh out of me with you rather studying in the snow. How funny! (Love your sense of humor.)
Hi Eileen, plantar fasciitis can be very painful. Here's what was recommended to me a number of years ago. 1. Get two cheap used golf balls. 2. Whenever you sit, take your shoes off and roll the soles of your feet over the golf balls. 3. Even if the fasciitis is worse in one foot, make sure that both feet get this exercise. It hurts, but it helps!
Pip,

It will be Microbiology and the last semester in Anatomy and Physiology starting in January. If I could study in the snow, I would.

Layers upon layers.
Carol, the amazing people at Mayo Clinic recommended the frozen water bottle as mentioned by Erin.

I got a little booklet on heel pain.

Right now, it is a thunderstorm in Rochester, Minnesota!!
+25 votes

Good evening from a slightly damp North Wales 

They need more rain in the rest of Wales and we have only had about 50% of our usual rainfall here.

Been busy since Wednesday welcoming new members to the England Project after one of our members was highlighted this week. 

One of those posting on the sign up G2G post mentioned a surname of interest to me. Another who has joined had Alden family who were connected to one of my One Name Study surnames and I recognised the surname which led to me connecting the person I had with her father. 

This weekend is a bank holiday over here so many have a day off on Monday. Being retired it just means it may be busier on the roads here.

Bye for now off to eat.

Forgot to say my CC7 actually went down this week by 1 not sure who it was that lost the connection to me.

by Hilary Gadsby G2G6 Pilot (320k points)
edited by Hilary Gadsby
Hilary, I bet the England Orphan Trail is as busy as ever. I got in early, so I can only imagine. Labour Day is our next holiday, so we are expecting tons of traffic in our little touristy town.
Bore da, Hilary! You are definitely a Wiki-Worker Bee. I am so grateful to have taken the England Orphan Trail early on (as did Pip). It really helped me to navigate English records, but WikiTree as well. Plus, I still connect with all my England Team colleagues. You take care and have a great week!
+25 votes
Hello Week-Enders! It started off cool and rainy this morning in Ottawa. The sun has come out but is still on the cooler side at 18°C. It will start warming up again tomorrow.

I’ e been busy this week making roasted tomato sauce and canning it. Tomorrow I have to start canning the 50 lbs of peaches that came from a friend’s cousin’s farm in the Niagara area. (It gets too cold in the winter to grow peaches here.) I’m still waiting for most of the tomatoes in my small city backyard garden to finish ripening.

I haven’t been doing much genealogy this week. I’ve mostly been looking for sources for people that I want to add to WT. I was also able to connect some DNA cousins to my Ancestry tree. Hopefully I’ll get more done this week.
by Liza Gervais G2G6 Pilot (398k points)
That's a lot of peaches, Liza! My mom used to just freeze them to save for pies later. (We didn't have peach trees; like you we got them from others.)
+25 votes

Virtual Vacation

On the way west to Yellowstone in September 2010 we stayed in the South Dakota Black Hills for a few days. One of the most interesting places we visited was The Mammoth Site at Hot Springs, SD. 

For centuries the fossilized bones of many mammoths were buried here but no one knew, until 1974 when they were discovered accidentally during excavating and leveling of a small hill for a housing development, when the bulldozer exposed the Mammoth Site. 

The worker hit something large with the bulldozer blade. After realizing that he had struck something unusual, the worker stopped to see what he had hit. What he saw was a tusk, about seven feet long, sliced in half length wise, along with other bones.

This is a reconstruction of a Columbian mammoth, they were big.

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The landowner contacted three universities and colleges in South Dakota and one university in Nebraska, none of them were interested in finding out what had been discovered. They should have been interested! Then the landowner’s son contacted a former college professor who taught archaeology and told him what they thought had been found. Several people spent 10 days excavating and were very excited.’ an unprecedented number of specimens were uncovered’. 

More than 26,000 years ago, large Columbian and woolly mammoths were trapped and died in a spring-fed pond/sinkhole near what is now the southwest edge of Hot Springs, South Dakota. This is the dig site, now enclosed with a walkway that lets you get close enough to make out the details of the body parts.

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Columbian mammoths were much larger than their northern woolly mammoth cousins. They were about 12-14 feet tall at the shoulders.  There are 3 Columbian mammoth skulls in this photo, though I'm not sure if I can tell which parts are which.

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These are mammoth molars, they had six sets of molars, that wore down over time and were then replaced by the next set, when the 6th set wore out the mammoth was about 60 years old and after that could no longer eat. 

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This is a mammoth spine, I think

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Look at the size of these tusks

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This must have been a juvenile, his tusks are much smaller, and yes him, apparently the mammoths found here were all male.

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When we were there the mammoth count was 61, 58 Columbian mammoths and 3 woolly mammoths. Most of the bones have been left in situ, just as they were found, and excavation takes place around them. Fossils of many other animals have also been found including camel, llama, giant short-faced bear, wolf, coyote and prairie dog.

This is a reconstruction of the type of shelter that could have been made from mammoth bones

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The Mammoth Site is now an indoor working paleontological dig site that is in a climate controlled building.

If you want to see more details in these pics, they are here https://www.wikitree.com/index.php?title=Special:BrowsePhotos&l=32268647&p=1&t=&w=0&o=uploadeddn

 

by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (751k points)
Fascinating! Thank you
Great pics and story, M. And thanks for that link, too!
Hi M, these photos are great and a wonderful memory! I taught at a small college in Helena, Mt from 1988-1990 before teaching for the military in East Asia for 3 years. In summer 1989 my maternal grandmother was dying so I took a Greyhound from Helena to Milwaukee. I stayed with her in the hospice unit that I had worked at in the past. I arrived in June and she died in July. I purchased a car while in Milwaukee and drove back to Helena on my own. I heard about this site and did a side trip (it wasn't and developed back then as it was in 2010 when you were there), but I did not regret the side trip. I drove from there through the Black Hills to Yellowstone then north to Helena. Thank you so much for this reminder of a wonderful 'healing' return trip following my gradmother's death. I learned so much! Plus, I just 'gifted' a painting that I purchased of a Crow Medicine Man that was painted by his granddaughter. So many wonderful memories!
I agree: This is fascinating!  Thank you for posting the pictures and the commentary!
+27 votes
My dear, dear Chatters.  Thank you very much for your prayers last week for my daughter.  They worked!  The doctor was able to find the right antibiotic and Ashleigh was released to go home to continue her recovery on Tuesday.

She still is on the antibiotic and will have to take it easy for a bit, but she survived sepsis!  I find that very amazing!  This momma's heart is ever so much lighter today.
by Candyce Fulford G2G6 Pilot (120k points)
So very relieved. Sending healing hugs.
If possible I would add 100 up votes.  I know I would be joined by 30 some wikitreers too.
Oh, thank you, Beulah!

I am thrilled that all is better with your daughter, Candyce. I can't wait to report this back to St. Pat's!

Good! I hope your daughter gets better real soon.

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