My ancestor is Aaron Lewis Miller-68789. My research and that of others indicated that Catherine Elizabeth Weaver-11632 was Aaron's wife. I have since done additional research: according to the census In 1860 Catherine A Miller is living in Adrian, Michigan with her husband Aaron and 4 sons. While Catherine Weaver is single, and living with her parents Amasa and Lydia Weaver in Allegan, Michigan. Am I allowed to disconnect Catherine Weaver from Aaron and his children?