Question of the Week: Who is one of your favorite female ancestors?

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in The Tree House by Eowyn Walker G2G Astronaut (2.5m points)
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While I have respect for many of my female ancestors, I really appreciate my maternal grandmother, Velma Crystal Sallee nee Hancock. She was born in Oklahoma Territory, out by the panhandle. Her family moved to northwest Missouri, then to Iowa. With the help of a female doctor, she went to college for two years to get her teaching certificate. I have a photo of it. My mother has the original.

She married a man who had an eighth grade education, had three boys then three girls. She supplemented the kids' public school education with her teaching knowledge using such tactics as card games to teach math.

Her married life was very difficult, but she persevered and enjoyed all of her nineteen grandchildren as we loved her. Her intelligence, generosity of spirit and artistic gifts made her many friends as well as a favorite of her family. She had a good soul.
Penelope VanPrincis Stout

1622-1732. She was born in Amsterdam and came to America in 1641. She was attack by Indians and left for dead, surviving the attack live to be 110. Having 10 children. She is the grandmother of Benjamin Merrill, Thomas Jefferson and myself.  She lived a very interesting life as did her grandsons mentioned above.

Glenda Williams.
One of my favorite female ancestors is Barbara Susong (Sausanger.)She came here with her husband to fight in our Revolutionary War. Being friends with Lafayette and bringing a 10 year old son with her, they fought in our war for 3 years…and getting pregnant during the war…makes Barbara a role model of the strength and endurance the women of this time had. The strength runs thruout my ancestors, serving as role models today.

Mary Edwards Walker (November 26, 1832 – February 21, 1919), commonly referred to as Dr. Mary Walker, was an American abolitionistprohibitionistprisoner of war, and surgeon.[1] She is the only woman to receive the Medal of Honor.

Known for Receiving the Medal of Honorduring the American Civil War, was the first female U.S. Army surgeon, prohibitionistabolitionist, first and only female Medal of Honor recipient

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My 6th great grandmother Mary Draper Ingles is my most famous female ancestor and I admire her very much. Captured by a Shawnee War Party in 1755, pregnant Mary and her two toddler sons were taken from present day Radford, Virginia to present  day Cincinnati, Ohio.  Mary remained in Shawnee Town for a few months, gave birth to a baby girl, and made the heartbreaking decision to escape and walk the 500-800 mile journey home by “Following the River”.  She knew her only hope of saving her children was to get back to her husband Will ( he also served in the American Revolution)

The story of Mary’s courage and tenacity was recorded first by one of her sons then later became the basis for the  historic novel Follow the River as well as an ABC Movie of the Week. She has been memorialized in statues at the Capitol in Richmond, VA, Boone, Ky, and Radford,Va. as well as her name attached to bridges, roads, and trails throughout WV and VA.  In Virginia, at the end of July Mary Draper Ingles Day is celebrated at her farm with colonial-era re-enactments.

I descend from her daughter Susannah Ingles Trigg.
by Debra Maggart Breske G2G3 (3.2k points)
selected by Beth Stephenson
I love her story!!!

I lived in Radford, Virginia, for many years.  As a structural engineer, I helped design renovations for an outdoor theater at which The Long Way Home was performed every summer.  The play, which I think was performed on the Ingles's homestead, was the story of Mary's capture, escape, and return home.

Oh wow.  Strong, brave woman!!
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Alice Wear a 3x GGM. https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Wear-396

She was born about 1825 in Roscommon, Ireland, she had at least 8 children with her husband Martin Sheridan.

The family moved from Ireland to Newcastle-under-Lyme Staffordshire, England sometime between the birth of their 3rd child Bridget about 1846 In Ireland and before the date of the 1851 census taken on 30 March 1851

Their next known child James was born after the 1851 census in Newcastle under Lyme.

This was when the potato famine was at it's height. There could have been other older children or more children born between Bridget and James who did not survive.

In 1851 they were living in a back to back house which was one of the cheapest and most likely most miserable places to live.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Back-to-back_house

It must have taken a lot of courage to make the move to England with no money and a family, they probably had no choice, they had to survive.

Her husband died in 1873 at the young age of 53.
by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (745k points)
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Charity Lewis is my favorite. Not because she was famous or notable, but because she was a brick wall for over a decade. In Charity's profile under research notes you can read about our search and what I finally uncovered. She was the subject of a family rumor that turned out to be completely wrong! 

The rumor our family passed down said Charity and her children must be indigenous because they had such dark skin! That their ancestry had been hushed up by the family. At that time we didn't know who Charity's family was, she was a complete mystery. We spent a long time searching for evidence to confirm the rumor! A lot of rabbit holes were explored!!

Genealogy sometimes requires a lot of patience, diligent research for reliable sources, never giving up and making sure to recheck for new documents being released. It was the release of a death registration, more than a decade after we started our search, for one of Charity's sisters that finally confirmed her mothers maiden name and put to rest the rumor of indigenous blood....but it opened up such a rich history to explore.. that includes United Empire Loyalists, New Netherlands, Dutch and Great Puritan Migration ancestors.

by Lorraine Nagle G2G6 Pilot (211k points)
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I am lucky in that I have quite a few remarkable women in my family tree, but the one that I think most deserves a bit of a nod during women's month is my 2nd Great Grand Aunt, [[Culton-58|Jessie Fatima Culton (1860-1933)]].  Jessie F. Culton was a Journalist, Newspaper Editor in Richmond, Ind., and a Pioneer Resident and Rancher in Garden Grove, Orange County CA. She and her life partner, Adele Charters were well respected in their community for their industry.  Adele was an electrician and was responsible for installing the first telephone lines in Garden Grove.  Jessie appeared in "Women of the Century" a Brief Biography published 1893, by Willard, Frances Elizabeth.  They both rest, side by side at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in CA.  

by Alie Ruff G2G6 Mach 1 (18.5k points)
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This is my very favorite ancestor as her life reads like a novel.

[[Armstrong-21002| Ann Armstrong]] was born about 1749 in Cumberland, England, on the border with Scotland, to Thomas Armstrong and Frances Jackson. She married Dominique Lissabe, a French privateer who was a prisoner of the British during the Seven Year War. He was being held in Brampton, a parole town. She became pregnant and they married in a Church of England ceremony at Brampton on 18 February 1761.

After the Seven Years War he was released, and they went to his home in Bayonne France where he once again sailed as a merchant seaman. Ann and the children sailed with him on many of his voyages. The were married again in a Catholic Church ceremony in St. Pierre et Miquelon, an island off the coast of Newfoundland, in order that the children could be baptized.

“Dame Anne Armstrong, 70 years of age, domiciled in this town, born Brampton in England, …widow of Sr. Dominique Lissabe, captain of a ship, died this day (27 Oct 1810) at 9 o'clock in the morning, in house no. 41, rue des Basques, North-West canton of this town (Bayonne)”  

This English country girl had an exciting life with her French husband and family. She had been witness to four wars, crossed the Atlantic ocean numerous times, had 12 children, but never saw her home in England again.
by Eloine Chesnut G2G6 Mach 1 (16.5k points)
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Great grandmom Adriaantje, she raised 12 children.

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Heijna-2

by Richard Ameling G2G6 Mach 2 (27.1k points)
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One of my favorites is also one of my brick walls.  Ann Spotswood Braford is my 5th great-grandmother.  No! She is not the daughter of Governor Alexander Spotswood--unless she was married to 2 different men and having children with both of them (some in the same year).  This has been an ongoing battle.  People constantly want to add Gov. Alexander Spotswood and Elizabeth Butler Brayne as her parents on other sites. I have not been able to prove if she is related to Gov. Spotswood or not.  It does not appear that she is a niece but she might be a cousin. Records are so sparse from the 1700's so it's hard to tell.

I love that in her will she left everything to her daughters and granddaughters.

If I could go back in time, I would love to meet her and find out who her and her husbands family were!

by Judith Fry G2G6 Mach 8 (80.2k points)
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Welby-8, Olive Welby was born before 17 June 1604 in Moulton, Lincolnshire, England. Olive married Deacon Henry Farwell, a tailor, on 16 April 1629 in Boston, Lincolnshire, at St. Botolph's Church. They had six children, three sons and daughters: Samuel, John, Joseph, Elizabeth, wife of Joseph Wildbore, Mary, wife of John Bates, and Olive, wife of Benjamin Spalding. Olive died on 1 March 1692 after age 87 in Chelmsford, Middlesex, Province of Massachusetts Bay. Olive is a Gateway Ancestor, a Descendant of Magna Carta Surety Baron Saher de Quincy, Quincy-226. Olive (Welby) Farwell migrated to New England during the Puritan Great Migration. Olive is also a descendant of King Edward I of England. Mildred Wheeler, Wheeler-18799, is Olive (Welby) Farwell's 8th great-granddaughter.
by Mildred Wheeler G2G6 Mach 8 (87.4k points)
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My favourite female ancestor must be my mother, but I think the question wants us to look back a little further. One of my most interesting female ancestors is Elizabeth Parr (nee Milton).

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Milton-1477 She was probably born in Culmstock on the Devon/Somerset border and married a young groom, Frederick Parr. Elizabeth and Frederick moved around Somerset a bit, from Taunton to Bath and finally to Bristol, when Frederick was in business as a "fly proprietor". Unfortunately Elizabeth's husband died at the comparatively young age of 43, so Elizabeth took over the business and was noted as employing several men and boys, probably very unusual in Victorian Britain.

She later moved to Hungerford in Berkshire as housekeeper to her brother-in-law.

As well as the genealogical connection I have a long case (grandfather) clock which is from a Hungerford clockmaker in the late 18th Century which has been passed down through at four generations, so probably came from Elizabeth's time in the town.
by Martin Honor G2G6 Mach 3 (37.8k points)

Hi, Martin, you might like to add that a "fly" was a light-weight horse-drawn trap or carriage and not the pesky varmints that spread disease, Wikipedia - In the field of transport a fly is, by definition, a vehicle that moves quickly. Examples include a light horse-drawn public passenger vehicle or delivery wagon or a light, covered, vehicle hired from a livery stable (such as a single-horse pleasure carriage or a hansom cab).

Yes, I should add that to Elizabeth's profile. It is explained on her husband's.
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They are all my favorites, but I especially admire the strength of Nancy Hopkins Hardesty, https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Hopkins-1427. She was a true American pioneer woman, widowed in Indian territory with nine children and the nearest neighbor 4 miles away.
by Beth Stephenson G2G6 Mach 6 (69.5k points)
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My paternal grandmother Else (Ostermann) Stegen - favorite because she was one of my motivations to start the Ostermann ONS, because I was blessed to have her shining example for almost four decades in my life, and because she had a fascinating biography:

Growing up in the Weimar Republic, she trained for the civil service and, still a teenager, fell in love with a dashing young man from the neighboring village. But then, World War II broke out, and while he served in the Army, she became secretary to the District Governor (their home villages being just a couple of miles outside of the district capital). They got married in 1942 (a war wedding), and thankfully, her husband (my grandfather) survived. After the war, while he made a career in building material supply, she managed the home, caring for their two children as well as ageing parents. When her workaholic husband succumbed to a heart attack in 1967, she went back to the District Governor's office and worked for another 15 years or so as his chief secretary. Upon retirement, she continued to keep busy, e.g. as treasurer of the local Red Cross group and various other voluntary work. In her mid-80s, she moved from her home of 60+ years (the Stegen farm which her father-in-law had bought from his World War I army service pay) to a senior residence, where she was surprised to find being among the younger residents. On one of my visits, she asked me, "Oliver, müssen wir so alt werden?" [Oliver, do we have to get that old?] Finally, a surgery was too much for her heart; she briefly woke up after it, told her daughter (my aunt) at her bedside, "Jetzt ist alles gut!" [Now all is well!], and closed her eyes for the last time.

by Oliver Stegen G2G6 Pilot (128k points)
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One of my favorite female ancestors is my 16th great grandmother, Lady Constance (Stokes) (de Percy) (de Percy) (Fitzwarin) de la Riviere (Stokes-3673), who was born in the early 14th century, and lived a long and "naughty lyf". She was married 4 times, had a son with Robert Wyville, Bishop of Salisbury and Keeper of the Privy Seal, as well as two daughters with her third husband, Philip Fitzwarin.  She triggered a long running feud of=ver the inheritance of the manor of Creat Chalfield.

She was born sometime before 1330. In 1349 she married a wealthy widower with a young daughter, Beatrice.  He bestowed his manor of Great Chalfield on her for life, then to go to Beatrice.  In 1357 he went on went on pilgrimage,  said to be because of "the naughty lyf the said Constance his second wyf lyved in with the bisshoppe Wayvile and with others". He never got to Jerusalem, because he died in Cologne.

In 1359 she married another wealthy landowner, who died a year later.

In 1360 her stepdaughter Beatrice (or more likely Beatrice's guardian and / or her first husband) sued  for posession of Great Chalfield, but lost.  Sometime before 1361 she had a son by Bishop Wyville of Salisbury.

In 1361 she married again (my 16th g grandfather) who came of a good family, but originally had no land (he subsequently acquired substantial estates).  They had two daughters.

The same year, 1361, Beatrice signed over to Constance not only the life interest in Great Chalfield, but also the rights of Beatrice and her heirs after Constance's death.  There was a subsequent century of lawsuits (not settled until 1467, long after both Beatrice and Constance were dead) on whether

a) Beatrice was "of age" when she signed over her inheritance to her stepmother

and

b) whether Beatrice had been coerced into signing away her inheritance.

Constance's third husband died in 1384, and she married for 4th time, another wealthy landowner.  She "overlived" this 4th husband, who died in 1400.  She was still actively involved in managing her properties, settling manors on various descendants in 1416, and she is last mentioned as alive in 1419, aged at least 89.

Thomas Tropenell (1405- 1488) was a lawyer and businessman who acquired a lot of land in south west England, especially Wiltshire - and he wanted Great Chalfield  by whatever means possible. He claimed it as his inheritance, because his third great grandmother, Catherine Percy, had been the daughter and sister of previous owners, but that claim failed. He sent military men to take it by force.  That failed. Then he paid large amounts of money to the families of Constance's descendants, and Betrice's descendants, who were still claiming ownership. Finally in 1467 he was able to get firm title to Great Chalfield, tore down the existing manor, and built a Tudor manor house, which still stands, and is open to the public.  It has been used in the filming of several movies and television series, including  the 2008 film, "The Other Boylen Girl", a BBC verision of "Tess of the d'Ubervilles", and the BBC series "Wolf Hall.".

See  [[Space:Great Chalfield|Great Chalfield]]for details.
by Janet Gunn G2G6 Pilot (160k points)
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Letitia (Barlow) Munson (abt.1826-1884)Barlow-6857who lived the life of a 19th Century soldier’s wife for almost 27 years, married three times, widowed twice, who travelled with the regiments of her husbands as they served in Ireland, England, the Crimea, Malta, and Canada. Her first husband was killed during the Charge of the Light Brigade and not only was Letitia there but I recently discovered she was employed as the maid of Fanny Duberly. I was surprised to find Fanny did not have her own profile yet so I’ve made a modest start on it: Frances Isabella (Locke) Duberly (1828-1902)Locke-5713. 

Letitia was a sister of one of my 3rd great-grandfathers.  But I only came to know of her and that relationship after researching a story of my family’s connection to her son James FinniganFinnigan-443, who started a Dance Academy that was run by him and his descendants in Manchester, England for 128 years.

by Brian Sweeney G2G Crew (800 points)
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My favorite female ancestor (this week) is Barbara Bowman (c1759-after 1822), who was born in a time when women didn't receive much recognition. I don't have a birth, marriage, or death record for her. Most of what I have learned is from the Chancery Court records of Shenandoah County, Virginia, and a little information gleaned from census and deed records.

Barbara is my earliest known mtDNA ancestress, so I would like to know more about her and locate her mother. 

I will keep reading about the Shenandoah County Bowman family, study deeds, probate, chancery records as well as Barbara's "FAN" Club. 

 mtDNA Haplogroup H26a1 

 

by M. Meredith G2G6 Pilot (143k points)
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Lady Jane Grey, the original Queen for a day, well 9 days. She was my 1st cousin 13X removed, the niece of Thomas Grey my 12th great grandfather. Lady Jane the great grand daughter of Henry VII, she inherited the throne from her cousin Edward VI on 9 July 1553 to prevent Mary Tudor from bringing back the Catholic religion to the throne. That did not work out very well for the Grey family.
by David Miller G2G1 (1.9k points)
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My favorite woman ancestor is Deborah Ann Pennock (formerly Yerkes), a great great grandmother of mine.  Deborah (1831-1912) was a Quaker in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania.  She was an a abolitionist and a conductor on the Underground Railroad.  She was also involved in other social reforms such as temperance and woman suffrage.  Deborah was an officer in the Pennsylvania Woman Suffrage Association in the 1880s.  She and Susan B. Anthony were friends and communicated and visited frequently.  Deborah also worked with and was friends with other social reformers such as Charlotte Perkins Gilman, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucy Stone, Eliza Sproat Turner, William Lloyd Garrison, and Helen Pitts Douglass (widow of Frederick Douglass).  Deborah dedicated her life to improving the lives of people who were marginalized.
by Dick Pennock G2G1 (1.5k points)
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I have many notable female ancestors, but perhaps the most notable is Agnes of Essex [[Essex-4]] who overcame a position of complete powerlessness to effect one of the most far-reaching changes in English and European law. When Agnes was just 15, her husband Aubrey de Vere tried to have their marriage annulled. Agnes fought him all the way up to the Pope in Rome. During this period, Aubrey kept her a prisoner in one of his three castles, in spite of being
reprimanded for it by the Bishop of London.
Eventually, the Pope ruled in her favour. This ruling established the legal requirement of consent by
females in betrothal and marriage. Before this important ruling, females had no say, in the eyes of
the law, in who they were betrothed to or married to. After the ruling, they could only be betrothed
or married if they consented.
by Mike Jonas G2G5 (5.7k points)

My material grandmother Violet Rose (Ray) Rouquier-12638. She came over when she was 18 with her brother George. She went back over to Switzerland to pick up her sister-in law Clara. She went alone to South America to meet up with her French Chef husband. He was already there. Still a mystery why he went alone?  She followed him but they came home together. Durning WW2, her home was always open to any French families who needed help. She never drove. She walked to the little store at the corner for groceries or walked to Mass on Sundays 2-3 miles away. Ferdinand was always busy at various private clubs to go with her. I went over some weekends to stay and sleep over.  We even went to the grocery store 5-6 miles away. No trouble for her.

My comment is finally got a photo in. The people standing left to right is Clara (sister in law) Violet and Ferdinand. The two girls are my mom Yvette and her sister Jacqueline.
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My favorite ancestor is my 12th great-grandmother Gertrud Stuell, who was tried and executed for witchcraft in Germany in 1590, charged with bewitching and killing her neighbors' livestock. I have to thank my 9th cousin Neil Patrick Harris for appearing on PBS Television's "Finding Your Roots" and making me aware of this shared family line of ancestors that became founding settlers of the Germanna Colony in Virginia in 1714.
by Gail Christie G2G1 (1.4k points)
Lucky you have a notable in your family. Love Neil Patrick Harris.  I find to find that PBS show. tyvm for posting
thanks
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I am very proud of my 9x great grandmother, Mary Dyer who gave her life in the cause of religious freedom, but the woman who I would like to highlight today is my paternal grandmother Helen Lottie Good who was Mary's direct descendant.

Born in Lower Millstream, New Brunswick in 1890, she moved with her family to homestead in Fillmore, Saskatchewan about 1904 and where she met and married my Grandfather Rev. Robert Charlton in 1912, a newly ordained Methodist Minister. After their first few ministerial posts and with two children (age 3 and 8) in tow, they left their ministry in the emerging Prairie Provinces for a sabbatical in my grandfathers' native land of Northeast England. Rev. Charlton had agreed to take charge of the large Westgate Mision Hall in Newcastle on Tyne for the relief of the acting minister, Rev. Alan F Parsons who had fallen ill. The couple did this and were very warmly received.

A newspaper report from the Fillmore Press states, "This they did with unqualified success, ministering to 1200 to 1600 people, as well as carrying on the various agencies connected with such a large Mission Hall.

Mrs. Charlton by her cheery, happy nature and her self-forgetting efforts in the interest of others, became endeared to the Novocastrians who admitted her gladly to their hearts and homes. She went to Durham to spend a holiday with Mr. Charlton's parents; feeling slightly ill, she went to bed and slept peacefully away before the arrival of the doctor. The event has cast a gloom over the west end of Newcastle (city) where Mr. Charlton laboured, and in Durham city, where the Charltons are so well known and highly respected."

And so it was that I never met my Grandma Charlton. She passed on the Ides of March, 1920 at the tender age of 29. All accounts I have heard of her passed down through the family match her outstanding character with the beauty I see in the few photographs we have of her. To me she stands as a somewhat mythic and ever endearing person who I will always hold in very high regard.
by John Charlton G2G Crew (470 points)
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My 6th great grandmother was Karenhappuch Norman Turner who was born in 1712 in Va. She was named after Job’s daughter and was the mother of 5 children who became Congressmen and Governors. Her son, James (my 5th great grandfather) was a soldier in the Revolutionary War who fought at the Battle of Guilford Courthouse in NC. He was injured so she rode a horse all night to be with him and took care of him and other soldiers who were injured.  There is a monument at the sight that honors her as one of the few female Revolutionary War heroes.
by Rebecca Bearden G2G Crew (530 points)

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