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Bery Hayden New York Feb 1863

Death 4 June 1919 Reading Pennsylvania

Jeanette E Spicer

1844 New York

Death June 22 1926 Reading Pennsylvania

Hello, I'm stuck like always I need help going further.

Answer 1

Unsure if these are the people you are looking for, Found 2 Death certificates one for Lillian Spicer and second for a Jeanette Hayden. came up empty on Bery Hayden (Maybe used a different spelling?)  

Detail Source

Name	Bery Hayden
Gender	Male
Birth Place	New York
Spouse	Jeanette Hayden
Child	Lillian Spicer

* '''Death of daughter Lillian Spicer''': "Pennsylvania, U.S., Death Certificates, 1906-1970"<br/>Pennsylvania Historical and Museum Commission; Harrisburg, PA, USA; Pennsylvania (State). Death Certificates, 1906-1968; Certificate Number Range: 067001-070000<br/>{{Ancestry Sharing|10340645|7b22746f6b656e223a22584632427353626970326b4f70624a4356346b4579637342754870556d7a516a7a2f6a572f7749734734453d222c22746f6b656e5f76657273696f6e223a225632227d}} (free access)<br/>{{Ancestry Record|5164|600869858}} ($, accessed 25 February 2024)<br/>Bery Hayden in death record for daughter Lillian Spicer 4 Jun 1919, husband of Jeanette Hayden, in Reading, Berks, Pennsylvania, USA.

The other is for Jeanette Hayden

Name	Jeanette Hayden
Gender	Female
Race	Negro (Black)
Death Age	82
Birth Date	1844
Birth Place	New York
Death Date	25 Jan 1926
Death Place	Cumru, Berks, Pennsylvania, USA
Father	Chas Mc Ganer
Mother	Ara Henderson
Certificate Number	9992

* '''Death''': "Pennsylvania, U.S., Death Certificates, 1906-1970"<br/>Pennsylvania Historical and Museum Commission; Harrisburg, PA, USA; Pennsylvania (State). Death Certificates, 1906-1968; Certificate Number Range: 007001-010000; Certificate Number: 9992<br/>{{Ancestry Sharing|10340676|7b22746f6b656e223a2235756e382b6274596f3251506735717a54446a5a4f68767574344e7646595433586e4339625563774d79593d222c22746f6b656e5f76657273696f6e223a225632227d}} (free access)<br/>{{Ancestry Record|5164|4084572}} ($, accessed 25 February 2024)<br/>Jeanette Hayden death 25 Jan 1926 (age 82), daughter of Chas Mc Ganer & Ara Henderson, in Cumru, Berks, Pennsylvania, USA.

Comments

How about Benj Hayden?

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came up empty on Bery / Berry / Barry and Benj / Benjamin Hayden from New York or anywhere that died in PA. This could mean that original Death date given was that of Lillian Spicer his daughter who was born Feb 1863. His wife Jeannette was born in 1844 so I suspect his birth year is closer to hers. Secondly the search is only good for years 1906-1970 so he could have passed prior to 1906.

1920 Jeannette Hayden was the widowed mother in law living with William Johnson listed as widowed and several children.

Answer 2

Jeanette McGaner Hayden findagrave ID 148563840

Answer 3

Benjamin B Hayden findagrave ID 73926079

Answer 4

Actually, Jeanette Hayden is listed as grandmother in 1910 census--living with William Johnson and Pearl Fonda Johnson.  Pearl is the daughter of Lillian Hayden Fonda Spicer. See 1910 census here for Ancestry or here for FamilySearch

Also, here is 1875 NY census for a Jane E Hayden age 33 with a daughter Lillie R Hayden age 12. No Benjamin, so if this is her, then Benj. may already have died.  Where did you get the birth and death date for him?