“Deserted her over three years ago because he could not stand her cooking,…”

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Hi Wikitreers,

When you think you have seen it all with most U.S. Civil War vets stories here is an intriguing one!

Per article…deserted her over three years ago because he could not stand her cooking,…” but was it really over the cooking?

We need collaboration in connecting Pvt Joel B. Burdick 

Thank you

Note: per familysearch bio shows father was John Burdick. He was born on 3 April 1833, in New York, United States, his father, John W Burdick, was 28 and his mother, Phebe Kinsley, was 25. He married Christianna Roe on 28 November 1855, in Fitchburg, Worcester, Massachusetts, United States. They were the parents of at least 2 sons. He lived in Templeton, Worcester, Massachusetts, United States in 1860 and Paterson, Passaic, New Jersey, United States in 1880. He died on 18 November 1921, in Minneapolis, Hennepin, Minnesota, United States, at the age of 88.

the articles mention him as a Jr. 

possible conflation needs research

Most likely this Joel B  Burdick and not Civil War Joel B  Burdick 

Name: Joel B Burdick Jr.
Sex: Male
Age: 41
Marital Status: Widowed
Race: White
Relationship to Head of Household: Son
Relationship Code: Son
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1900
Event Place: Election District 13 Minneapolis city Ward 8, Hennepin, Minnesota, United States
Event Place (Original): ED 93 Election District 13 Minneapolis city Ward 8, Hennepin, Minnesota, United States
Sheet Letter: A
Sheet Number: 8
Birth Date: Mar 1859
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Father's Birthplace: Massachusetts
Mother's Birthplace: New York
 

Household  Role  Sex  Age  Birthplace 
Joel B Burdick  Father  67  Massachusetts 
Catharine M Burdick  Mother  64  New York


"United States Census, 1900," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M9SJ-TG6 : accessed 14 April 2023), Joel B Burdick Jr. in household of Joel B Burdick, Election District 13 Minneapolis city Ward 8, Hennepin, Minnesota, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) 93, sheet 8A, family 128, NARA microfilm publication T623 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 1972.); FHL microfilm 1,240,769. 

WikiTree profile: Joel Burdick
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Here's a clipping entitled "Divorce Docket" from the  July 23, 1892, edition of the Star Tribune, where Etta seeks a divorce from Joel, Jr.  The cooking is also mentioned.

https://www.newspapers.com/clip/122873127/

by Roger Stong G2G Astronaut (1.4m points)
selected by Mark Williams

Definitely a Jr. mentioned it’s a bit tricky same name a Joel B. Burdick in same region and area of Minnesota. 

I wonder what she served for supper laugh 

Here's another clipping from 1892, where Joel is reported to be 34 that year (which means that he had to be born ca. 1858).

https://www.newspapers.com/clip/122873304/ 

That makes him a different Joel B. Burdick than the civil war vet mentioned in the 106th New York Co. F.

Two men same name same area Minneapolis Mn

Civil War Jole buried here see memorial 

A cigar manufacturer who drinks up his profits:

https://www.newspapers.com/clip/122873452/

Yes. She claimed he drank it up and was cruel his response seems to be only the cooking

This has to be him - cigar manufacturer in the 1910 United States Census:

https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M2G8-9DD

How ironic he was born in New York also but does match the Jr

The divorced Joel Burdick is Jr., and the son of the Civil War vet.  The 1900 census enumerates Joel Burdick, b. Apr 1833, spouse Catharine, and son Joel Jr, b. March 1859.

The 1910 census names Joel B, 75, and Katherine, 72 in Minneapolis.

Joel Jr married Etta.

Spouse Etta sked to resume her maiden name - Hall in one article, Holland in another; but, a marriage record has her Etta Carson.

Marriage record: https://www.ancestry.com/discoveryui-content/view/190768:2561?tid=&pid=&queryId=37f13aa793baa7c6332dfd440ea8a57b&_phsrc=Qhn1390&_phstart=successSource

Thank you so much for sorting this out and updating creating profiles. An outstanding job. Wowyes

Joel Jr was a scoundrel!  Still working on his beleaguered spouse and children.
Indeed it does appear that is correct

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