What shocking discoveries have you made on your tree

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Hello y'all! I'm Jeff, I've been researching my history for about 3 years now and I've made some utterly shocking discoveries. In the realm of things that can't be proven due to fabrications of my ancestors, I found myself to be descendant from the Medici's and the Gherardini family of Italy due to the fabrication of Sir Gerald Fitzwalter who stated this claim in his version of events. Being descended from him and his wife Princess Nest, I'm able to trace my family lineage back to insane places. For example, one of my direct ancestors was called Beli Mawr, who is widely believed to be the human counterpart to Belanus the Sun God. This even brings in such auspicious names as Anna of Aramathea the Prophetess. As well as quite a few other people who are considered to be the human counterparts to the Tuatha De Danann, which translates to the folk gods of Celtic belief. Personally I find that to be hilarious, as a pagan individual the Tuatha De Danann are actually the deities that I pray to and honor in my spiritual practice.

Along with these what I call novelty ancestors who are either unproven or based on proven fabrication, I also found real life people who can be proven. I found myself to be descended from US Patriots and a man who signs the declaration of Independence, I also found My great great great great grandparents Catherine a slave woman from Mississippi and her enslaver Major Sartin, I remember learning about them in history class in 7th grade. As well I found some people who were brave enough to be on the right side of history during the civil war, and unfortunately found some people who were not only firmly placed on the wrong side of that time period But were responsible for slavery itself. Because one of them owned three of the boats from that time. I found a man who used a large amount of money to buy a huge plot of land then purchased 100 slaves for the sole purpose of setting them all free, giving them that land to live on and in doing so became the father of what is now a modern-day town. This took place 10 or 20 years before the civil war ended. I remember as I read the story, I was moved to tears and honestly spent hold up a great deal of time that night in quiet contemplation after finding my spirits stirred with emotion at the brave and beautiful act that this man committed. While that man is seen as nothing less than a hero I also found a direct ancestor who for lack of better terms was a slave hunter who was following the underground railroad charging himself with the purpose of returning slaves to their enslavers. Some of my discoveries have made me immensely proud and left me utterly shocked because no one in my family knew anything about my family history prior to The lives of my grandparents. Other discoveries have literally turned my stomach and almost caused me to completely quit researching it all together.

That brings me to my question. Who have you discovered on your family tree that you had no idea ever existed or that you had no idea that you were related to? Did you come from Kings and queens? Did you descend from people who you wish you didn't? Did you discover people that you remember learning about in history class? What heroes and which villains will we find on your tree?
in The Tree House by Jeff White G2G6 (6.4k points)
Wow, Jeff, the truth is so much more amazing a story than all the fictions!  Your real ancestor story is something very special.  You're someone I wish I had for a friend in real life - I greatly admire your emotional strength, to have gone through all those discoveries and emerged with your pride not only intact, but greatly enhanced.
Friendship is always available my dear. And thank you so very much for your kind words I was not expecting that at all. I think the one thing I've learned overall in all of this research is I am immensely grateful to have been born in the time that I have been born in. Things are not perfect right now and definitely neither are the people but at least in some areas we are much more evolved and with grace that our ancestors just didn't have not all of them anyway.

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Well, one doesn't always have to go very far to find something shocking. I discovered my mother had a Non-Paternity Event (NPE). The father on her birth certificate was not her biological father. Everyone involved has since passed away. But it was a shock to me to discover that my grandfather actually someone else.

But I have it easy. This is one generation removed from me. There are many, many people who are dealing with NPEs for themselves. It causes you to re-evaluate your own identity.

by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (522k points)
Eric, not truer words. Since I discovered that the man on my birth certificate and that raised me with my mother for my first seven years, was not my biologic father, I have had a huge range of emotions, including re-evaluating my identity. At age 72, I was not prepared and will confess for the first several months I felt somewhat depressed.
I was "found" by a second cousin who found his parents' profiles that I had put on WikiTree.  For over a year, he and his brother developed a very warm relationship with me, then they both took DNA tests and were shocked to their core to find that their father (who was my father's 1st cousin) wasn't their father.  They also didn't even have the same father.  When they investigated further, they found that they were both results of artificial insemination.  They wrote to me saying that we're not really cousins and there is no reason for us to remain in contact.  I wrote back, saying that as far as I am concerned, they certainly are my cousins (even adoption counts for that purpose) and hope they change their minds and resume our relationship, but in 4 years, it hasn't happened yet.
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You can't pick Family, that is why you should use diligence in choosing your friends-That must play into ,'you are judged by the company you keep'
by K Smith G2G6 Pilot (376k points)
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Black Sheep don't come darker than the ones in my tree.

I was delighted to find a letter written by an in-law many decades ago, in which he calls my father's side of the family "restless halfassed and volatile", a family legacy I endeavor to live up to every day of my life.
by Jessica Key G2G6 Pilot (318k points)

You should design a family badge with that as the motto!  (In Latin, of course, to make it more official! cheeky)

That one is for sure needed on the family crest
Jessica, we must be cousins because I am a perfect fit with your father's family.
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My grandmother and her sister—last name of Dietrich whose grandparents were from "near Berlin"—used to laugh when relatives told them they were related to Marlene Dietrich. As the family historians, my sister and I dismissed it too. We were unable to find our ancestors until last year, when the records of the town of Schmargendorf became available at Archion.de.

Through those records, we found out that Marlene is, indeed, a third cousin to my grandma and her sister. Too bad they didn't live long enough to know this, they both died back in the 1980s.
by Linda Kast G2G1 (1.8k points)
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I have seen multiple warnings to researchers about discovering shocking things when digging around in their history. I found that I am a descendent of Samuel White who settled in central Ohio in the late 1790's. During my research I discovered that he had been a soldier in the Revolutionary War in North Carolina, scalped by Native Americans loyal to the British, and left for dead! Luckily he survived and raised a large family.
by Marie Haines G2G Rookie (290 points)
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I can't say that I have ever been shocked by any findings, surprised definitely, shocked not so much. Just tonight I was researching and fleshing out a profile of a gr gr gr grand uncle. I found his wife, one Mary Ann Shirley. Why does that name sound familiar? Her sister was Myra M Shirley, why does that name sound familiar? Almost there, better look at some other family. Myra M or Maybelle was married to Sam Starr-no way. My aunt Mary Ann was Belle Starr's sister. I would have to look again, but this same gr uncle had a close connection to Bess Truman. The best of both worlds I do declare.
by K Smith G2G6 Pilot (376k points)
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Yes, Boy do you find some information, some good some bad,  one would say as gomer on Andy Griffin would say, surprise, surprise, surprise. It was my stepdad who sign my birth certificate, my mother would not say who my father was to her dying day, my sisters are my half sisters, found my Aunt was a half sister to my mother, and I know she never knew. And  my aunt she was married to one man but one of her kids  is a half brother to his other three. However I decided not to tell my cousins they were half brothers and sisters . My name is Smith, my DNA says Heathcock, hathcock, Hathcoat. But I have 7 1st cousins who are Mize.  My question every day is who am I.
by Alfred Smith G2G6 Mach 1 (15.8k points)
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I always knew a lot of my family history was from Scotland but i always thought we just immigrated..but i have since found it is much deeper than that..that during the late 1500 to early 1600 my family line actually had a different name of Ruthven..but as they fled from Scotland because of some very crazy and well known historical facts my ancestor took on his wifes maiden name to prevent being hunted down like some of his relatives and thats how we have the Trotter name now
by Sonya Trotter G2G1 (1.6k points)

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