Question of the Week: What's your most embarrassing genealogical mistake? [closed]

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imageHave you made any embarrassing genealogical mistakes? It's OK! Most of us have! Share your story so that others can learn from you. :-)

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in The Tree House by Eowyn Walker G2G Astronaut (2.5m points)
closed by Eowyn Walker

69 Answers

+32 votes
Way back in my research infancy, I was researching my Thomas line from Georgia and found what I thought was the correct line in North Carolina. Perfect Thomas family - names were the same, timeline for my Jesse Thomas the same - everything fit. I returned home from Salt Lake City and added that family - with sources, to my database. A few years later, I added them to a family book I was compiling bringing the family up to date for that time - the early 1980's from Georgia to Texas.

Much to my dismay, many years later, I discovered that there were two Thomas families that had landed in North Carolina about the same time; one was the English Thomases and the other was the German Thoma/Thomases. As it turned out we were descended from the German line - the second Germanna Colony to land in Virginia in 1717 with my particular line later moving to North Carolina. My book was a very limited edition but I still meet up with the results in Ancestry trees and other places from time to time.
by Virginia Fields G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
+35 votes
Getting started without any information. Being a typical guy, I need no instructions, direction or information. I think I would have learned from snow skiing. First lift ride was a green run, no problem. Second lift ride was a blue. Kind of tough but doable. I only fell every couple hundred feet or so. Third lift was to the top. Now I had choices. Go left your on a blue trail, go right you are on black. Let us try the black one. I survived! I walked several hundred feet down a vertical incline until the black intersected a blue trail. With blistered feet, from walking in ski boots, I donned my skis and stayed with the doable. So what does this have with genealogy, everything. Don't assume you know how to Wiki b/c you already know who   your grandparents' grandparents were. Add some profiles and look around. Ask questions, ask for help. Look at questions that have already been asked. Get familiar with your surroundings. your hobby will be much more enjoyable.
by K Smith G2G6 Pilot (376k points)
K, Good answer. Congrats on your wings!
Hey Mary, welcome aboard! I will never know all there is about genealogy, Wiki or skiing. I don't let what I can't do, stop me from doing what I can. Thanks for the best answer, enjoy!
Instructions?  I don't need any ....... oh wait, nevermind!
Hey David, join us this week end for the chat. We can still dirt dive and talk about the good ol' days.
+1 vote
Does marrying my first husband count? We have descendants.
by Lucy Selvaggio-Diaz G2G6 Pilot (838k points)
reshown by Chris Whitten

My children used to think so!  cheeky

+30 votes

If there were only one that fit this categorycheeky

Invariably they always stem from not paying attention to your genealogical surroundings. When in uncharted waters or waters with dubious charts, look up, look down, look under the rocks, and don’t make assumptions. 

by T Stanton G2G6 Pilot (382k points)
+33 votes
I had a genealogy for my maternal grandfather , George Eugene Gibbs, that he had worked on himself.  When I first became interested in my family tree, I followed this.  There was a family tradition regarding his g grandfather, Peter.  His last name,the tale had it, was 'Putnam' and that he was a cousin of Israel Putnam, who was active in the Salem Witch Trials.  I dutifully followed this lead, finding a  plausible family line except that the wife's was different than the name my  grandfather had recorded. I looked for the records until I had nowhere else to go and finally did include the information in the family tree that I was working on.  

It was around Christmas time and I worked on an intricate report, with family crests, historical records, etc.  This was the present I gave my children, nieces and nephews.  I printed it out and put it in fancy folders and  proudly presented it to them .

Still ,I continued trying to find the 'Israel Putnam' records that would solidify the connection. After all, my  grandfather must have  KNOWN.  I found a Putnam family researcher and  questioned him about the mismatching wife's names and to my surprise he answered me quickly .  He said that he had already looked into it.

Imagine my surprise when he told me that in my family, the name 'Putnam' was incorrect.  Apparently the family thought that 'Putnam' was a much more desirable surname than their actual name, which is 'PutMan'!  I researched the new name and easily found connections that went back to the immigration of the family to America from the Netherlands.    I even finally found a newspaper article that introduced Peter Putman as a settler. It said that he introduced himself as a cousin of  Peter Putnam, but that his name was actually Putman.  It turns out that the Putmans have a rich and exciting history of their own, which I find much preferable to the former.

Imagine my embarrassment,though, when I had to reclaim the gifts that I had given and admit the error.  It did teach me to follow the family names myself rather than trust a previously recorded history, even if it is from such a trusted source as a grandfather!
by Karla Newmark G2G1 (1.2k points)
No kidding, Karla!  I have a bunch of loose papers and a binder from my husband's father.  Some other relative gathered the info, but in hubby's immediate family, at least 3 of the 5 kids birthdates, and some names, are wrong.  How on earth can I trust the rest of it, about people I don't know?
+30 votes
Not talking with my 4 grandparents and my 4 great grandparents more about their family history!!!
by Christine Miller G2G6 Mach 6 (63.3k points)
+20 votes
Not organising my genealogy properly and doing it whilst away and ordering a birth certificate that I already had.

Also, not doing own research and not listening to what people thought they knew. A great aunt was supposingly born in 1925. Ordered a birth certificate thinking it was the right person.  Then after doing further research realised she was born in 1919 and the person I ordered was not the right person.

Steph
by Stephanie Hill G2G6 Mach 4 (46.9k points)
+31 votes
Not spending more time with living relatives - especially recording their stories, and asking about photos taken before I was old enough to know what was happening.
by Anonymous Reed G2G6 Pilot (184k points)
Right on target!
+20 votes
When I first started my tree i put the wrong wife of my 4thGGf, didn't discover my mistake for years and when I did, I had thousands of peope connected to her. Luckily one of those thousands turned out to be a cousin so I just disconected her from my grandfather and connected my cousin ( a trick I still have yet to learn on wiki)
by Stephen Robertson G2G Crew (800 points)
+30 votes
I mistook one of my ancestors occupation to be lawyer when it actually was sawyer….family never let me forget it.
by Irene Pantalone G2G6 (8.4k points)
your family should have thanked you for his "upgraded" occupational status, once you discovered your mistake
i mistook my ancestors occupations as a Stage Dancer when it was actually a Stage Driver, so dont feel bad!!!

When my sister was caught in a fib, telling members of her Brownie Troop that her daddy was a lawyer too, she wriggled off the hook by specifying - a brick lawyer!  She grew up to have a son who is a public defender.

+28 votes
I'm sure that I am not alone and that uninitiated others have thought that LNU signified a exotic-sounding surname. I found myself trying to find the family of Mary "Lnu" without success. When it dawned on me--"Last Name Unknown"--I had to chuckle at my denseness.
by Matthew Redman G2G2 (2.4k points)
I have never heard that!  Good LOL.
I thought I had found the name of my great-great grandfather on a death certificate.  My own grandfather was the informant.  What I read was "Donut Snow".  What a weird name!  Turns out my grandfather has terrible handwriting and it actually read "Do not know".  Whoops!
Family records a multiple-g grandmother with the last name of Uln.  I still don't know if that is really a family name or just Unknown Last Name...
I still remember my first encounter with LNU. Years ago when I first became a police dispatcher I had to give a suspect description over the air to the patrols units. So I keyed the microphone and read the suspects info verbatim. Once I had finished telling all my units what Mr LNU looked like and was driving I sent the same into to them via their computers.   I remember thinking to myself what an odd last name LNU  was.  I got some well deserved laughs over that one once someone noticed my error.

Had a similar problem when I  heard (and repeated a  ‘’middle name”  that sounded like ‘Eniman’. It was actually someone saying NMN. As in No Middle Name
Haha, thanks for sharing. Glad I'm not the only one.
+19 votes
I started with the genealogy that my paternal great grandfather had done for DAR/SAR in the 1950s and took it a gospel. I finally figured out that he had gone with the wrong cousin in the 1800s and had to go back and research the new line. But I have a remarkably complete side line for that first choice. My grandfather still would have been eligible but not with the man (who was accepted and is still in the DAR registry) he identified as his ancestor.
by Jennifer Wilson-Pines G2G6 Mach 1 (12.4k points)
edited by Jennifer Wilson-Pines
I'm curious: Will the DAR accept the updated lineage though?
+19 votes
I’m fortunate to not really have anything over the top embarrassing. The only thing I truly regret is that I didn’t feel confident enough to speak with my grandparents about their lives. I was smart enough to have done in with my mother but wished I could have recorded her stories more than just writing them out. I wish I had pressed my father more, for his stories, because he died suddenly 2 months ago, and we were nowhere near getting the info from him that we should have been. I’m embarrassed that I was too shy to approach people knowing the importance of their lives, having been doing genealogy for over 25 years. Don’t be like me- do it!
by Elizabeth Godon G2G6 Mach 1 (11.8k points)
Sorry for your loss, Elizabeth.
+22 votes
Through my fathers mother I have ancestry in the upper society class in the Swedish province Värmland. These people are better documented than commoners so I could research this branch quite well. Eventually I found conections to a noble family. This was fun enough, and I have gone back and re-checked this since and know this is as by the sources.

However, going back this nobility line, one guy was married two times. Here I made my misstake; I misstook what wife my ancester had as a mother. Then followed the line downwards, and ended up in the Norwegian king Magnus Håkonsson (r 1299-1313). Then I told everybody I had royal lineage. And THEN I discovered my ancestor was the son of the second wife.
by Filip Wessman G2G3 (3.4k points)
+20 votes
I once confused my ancestor William Garrison from NJ who moved to OH as the abolitionist William Garrison.
by Shannon Copeland G2G3 (3.4k points)
+22 votes
My grandfather always said that he was born in Hastings. We assumed that he meant the English town in Sussex. However, when we searched for his birth certificate, we couldn't find anyone of that name born in Hastings at that time. Eventually an old family friend told us that he was born in Calcutta while his father was working in India. The Hastings he was born in is a suburb of Calcutta named after the first Governor General Warren Hastings.
by Adam Quinan G2G Crew (870 points)
+21 votes
In 2013 I became interested in my ancestry after receiving my 23andMe results. I purchased a subscription to Ancestry.com with the naive assumption that anything I found on the site would be true and accurate.

I became astonished to find so much about one branch of my paternal side that kept going back in time farther and farther. It was the FIRST time I ever heard of the Plantagenet family and then I realized, hey, these people were KINGS!

I began telling people I was descended from the kings of England UNTIL...I looked closer and found myself deleting one ancestor after another, realizing someone had put in the wrong ancestors for one set of my third great grandparents. Apparently, people had found a link to these famous people and made a wild leap to connect to them.

So, that was embarrassing, but still funny enough to soften the blow.
by Larry Herbstritt G2G5 (5.2k points)
+22 votes
Trusting familysearch and ancestry trees. It's taking me years to fix uploaded gedcoms.
by Jenny Lawless G2G1 (2.0k points)
+21 votes
Not paying attention to age. I accepted all the trees that stated one particular woman was our ancestor. I put that info in my trees and backtracked from there. One day I actually "looked" at it and realized she would have had to be 67 before she had her first child. Our ancestor may have been married to her at that point, but she wasn't the mother of his children. Took out a whole branch I haven't been able to fix. But, I learned, and I pay attention to age now.
by Debra Akin G2G6 Mach 2 (21.7k points)
+15 votes
In 2010 I spent about 4 hours using my aunt's 23andMe results to find all of her matches she had on segments that were between 1 and 3 cMs long.
by Peter Roberts G2G6 Pilot (711k points)

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