No problem, Jim - all's well that ends well. For general information (yours and other members), not everyone has the same communication priorities ...
I do not have any types of WikiTree email turned off, but I have an elaborate filing system for incoming email. Comments on my profile, private messages, and notifications of G2G posts all go into different folders. I attach the highest importance to seeing messages coming to specific email accounts (I monitor about a dozen webmaster@somewhere type accounts, plus 6 of my own accounts, all used for different purposes). When I am working on my computer, I will see G2G post notices immediately upon receipt and will check private messages during the same work session, but don't attach any urgency to comments on my profile. I realize that other members, if they prioritize incoming email, will not necessarily have the same priorities as I do.
I share your concern about privacy, but it is not necessary to reveal your email address when sending a private message. You can change the email address field in the private message so that your email address is not shown to the member receiving the message, which I often do for members I do not know, with a note in the message saying that replies will not come to me, but another private message can be used to reply. I also sometimes reply to private messages by private message if I do not want my email address to be disclosed to them.
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I wish WikiTree would include a radio button for private messages to allow us to select whether or not to disclose our email address to the recipient and then include the "do not reply" statement as part of the official message information when sending it. I also wish WikiTree would send notice if a member's question, answer, or comment is flagged or hidden - there is no way of knowing this unless you happen to return to your post.