In this particular case, the cemetery was already in existence. I placed the category on the profile. Here is the category programming if you need it for other profiles.
[[Category:Burnham-on-Crouch Cemetery, Burnham-on-Crouch, Essex]]
We would love to have you join our group and learn the cemetery category process as Peggy suggested. To answer your question though, it is my belief that this is still the way to request help if you feel the process is difficult.