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WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Closed until next weekends chat January 7th
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.7m points)
closed by David Selman
A blessed new year to you, Pippin.
I read about 2 books a week, ranging from fiction of many genres, plus history, ecology and lots of other topics.

Page count guessing 104 books multiplied by 250 pages about 26,000. This year there was only 1 book I didn't finish probably one someone gave me because they thought I would like it. Or they just wanted to clear some space.
Happy New Year Pip,

As usual, you are inspiring me to be more organized about things. I do not know how you do it, but maybe some will rub off on me. Glad you got to see all your kids, hope you properly documented the occasion, with the future in mind, lol! What a great find from your Aunt Doris!

Take Care, Momo
Happy New Year, Pip! Glad the kids were able to make it, and hope the preliminaries to the move go smoothly.
Oh no, again Ontario announces new restrictions due to Omicron!
Oh no! That's terrible! I guess my visit to Canada will have to wait.
Eileen, you can still visit Ontario but you can't eat in a restaurant, go to a strip club, go to a gym, museum, gallery, zoo, science centre, historic site, amusement park,or a festival, or an indoor meeting.

I'm not sure what the other provinces are doing other than Quebec where they have reinstated a curfew.

Long list of what you can't do in Ontario, ouch ..  well, looks like grocery shopping is okay not on the list of verboten places ... and go to the medical facility, that's not on the list ... so the list indicates that only those actions that are necessary to sustain health or restore it are acceptable and those probably require masks at the least 

Susan, masks are required in any and every building other than your own home and have been since March 2020.

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/covid-19-ontario-jan-3-2022-ford-public-health-measures-1.6302531
And this mask measure is seen as effective as a deterrent against the spread of any of the covid virus. So we're looking as factor #1: using the mask outside of the home and factor #2: being vaccinated to reduce the impact of any virus that does "break through" and hopefully reduce it to endemic, as polio, measles, and such have been

And we still have those who refuse to be vaccinated; we still have those who refuse to wear a mask outside the home.

There's no police force that I have ever heard of that has enough personnel to enforce the mask mandate.

Bummer 2020 and bummer 2021 and from all indications 2022 is going to be a bummer for all the same reasons - the virus, the shortages, the national and local economies, the (all the other things)

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Good morning Pip and the weekend Chatters!

I hope everyone has a Happy New Year!

Weather

  • It is currently overcast and 72ºF.

Genealogy

  • I have been looking over my autosomal DNA results from MyHeritage. Already, it has lead to the connection of one of my 3rd great grandfathers already entered on WikiTree.
WikiTree
  • I have started using the Google Chrome browser so that I can utilize the WikiTree extensions.  If you haven't used any of the WikiTree extensions, then you are missing out on an enhanced WikiTree experience.
by Tommy Buch G2G Astronaut (2.0m points)
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Your DNA results: How great is that, making that connection, Tommy?!? This is exciting for you and for us. I hope you will continue to make other connections along the way.
I will admit that the DNA autosomal tests have been beneficial to me in my tracking down of many 2nd and greater cousins. Now if I can just get them to communicate.
Ha! Isn't that the truth! (the communication part)
Congratulations on your DNA relative discoveries. I have found that posting these results have helped find ancestors as well!
We are currently sunny, a very unusual sight around here this last month and some, LOL, and it's somewhere around 41 or 42 F. (I don't do Celcius) ..

Tommy, I do have a question ... I have read some about the donation of the sex gene x or y from the father which donation determines we are male or female. 

Ignoring all those not xx or xy, I read some about the DNA tracing of the male line of ancestry (Y-DNA) and the female line of ancestry (mtDNA) 

What I do not understand is this "new" tracking of ONLY the "x". I mean we all have an x. What does tracking ONLY this x do that y-dna or mtdna study does not do? 

I haven't done DNA, I have enough relatives!

I just figured this out: I have these generations and quantities of grandparents on FTM , and very many more great aunts and great uncles, not all of them are on WT. 

Great grandparents 8

2 X GGP 16

3 X GGP 32

4 x GGP 23+ 23=46 of 64

5 X GGP 28+ 28 of = 56 of 128

6 X GGP 36 +33= 69 of 256

7 X GGP 26 + 25= 50 of 512 

8 X GGP 28 + 27 = 55 of 1024 

9 X GGP 21 + 14 =35 of 2048 

10 X GGP 9 + 4 =13 of 4096 

11 X GGP 3 + 2 = 5 of 8192 

Hi Tommy,

I did not know that about the google Chrome browser, I will have to investigate, thanks for the tip!

Glad you are finding the dna journey useful! For me, I have added a few cousins that I was able to figure out how we were related, but mostly it has been a confirmation of things I already knew.

Wishing you continued success in the new year!
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Thank You for hosting the Chat Pip. And Happy New Year to everyone!

Musings form The North Coast of Ohio.

Weather, All over the place Right now it is a gray cloudy day at almost 50 degrees F. This has been the 6th warmest December in recorded history.

On the Home Front,

Diane had her first cataract surgery Tuesday morning. It went well and she is doing fine but due to post op restrictions I have had to do a lot more around the house leaving little time for much else. The other eye is scheduled for Tuesday next week so I expect next weeks post will be almost the same as this weeks.

Genealogy, Nothing of note, almost nothing at all. I just had more important things to worry about.
by Dale Byers G2G Astronaut (1.7m points)
Dale, my older brother had both of his eyes done. His cataracts were due to his being a commercial airline pilot for years and flying in that bright sun above the clouds and pollution.  Here's hoping your wife comes through with flying colors!
Hi Dale, I wish your wife well! I had cataract surgery on both eyes about 8 years ago and am very thankful for the improved sight. It was like having the vision of a 17-year-old. The downside was that my body was NOT 17-years-old.
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Yesterday was a horrible day!  The wind kicked up above hurricane force and a wildfire ripped through the towns of Boulder, Superior and Louisville in Colorado.  I was hunting just east of that fire and the smoke blackened the sky. More than 500 homes lost and probably way more than that.  It is still burning this morning but the wind has calmed down as we expect about a 5-6 inch snowstorm starting late afternoon.

I know we have some Wikitree people over there.  My home is safe and I have room for you. PM me if I can help.
by Gurney Thompson G2G6 Pilot (475k points)

laugh As I understood the role of QE2, she's no longer a ruler, but merely reigns. She has no legislative power. She is not the sole arbitrator of the laws. 

You have elections, you are not ruled, you are regulated - a monarch rules, elected officials regulate 

Ah, and it is not voluntary it is compulsory, I read, age 18 and older you must vote or else be penalized which is the polar opposite of some countries where no one is allowed to vote because there are no elections, they are ruled, not regulated  

laugh I think the problems with our government started when women were granted the legal right to vote in the US. devil 

surprise Or maybe it was when it was legally recognized (in this country at least) that women as wives or children etc are NOT chattel. Simple change like that blew a hole in the economics of the time - it is the concept of coverture -- Under the doctrine of coverture, a woman was legally considered the chattel of her husband, his possession. Equality, Property, and Marriage

 Coverture is a long-standing legal practice that is part of our colonial heritage. Though Spanish and French versions of coverture existed in the new world, United States coverture is based in English law. Coverture held that no female person had a legal identity. At birth, a female baby was covered by her father’s identity, and then, when she married, by her husband’s. The husband and wife became one–and that one was the husband. As a symbol of this subsuming of identity, women took the last names of their husbands. They were “feme coverts,” covered women. Because they did not legally exist, married women could not make contracts or be sued, so they could not own or work in businesses. Married women owned nothing, not even the clothes on their backs. They had no rights to their children, so that if a wife divorced or left a husband, she would not see her children again.  Coverture: The Word You Probably Don't Know But Should | National Women's History Museum

Your statement was "A monarchy has subjects not citizens and a democracy in any variation has citizens due to their ability to be invested in the outcomes of the elections, and to the input into the laws" - and it was that to which I was responding.  I am a citizen of my country, not a subject of it, although I may also be a subject of Her Majesty.  I think you'll find that Her Majesty is a Monarch, as is Willem-Alexander of the Netherlands.  Whatever our citizenry is, we are subject to our own laws, and have the right of protest (just ask the Victorians and Western Australians, in particular), and a few things we don't even realise we have/can do.  My late husband and I discussed more than once things I could do that he (an American citizen by birth) no longer could.

As for a democracy being one where citizens are supposedly "invested in the outcomes of the elections, and their input into the law" -- how invested are they when so few actually bother going out to vote in the US (usually fewer than 60% of those eligible bother to show up)?   Our electoral system may mandate voting from the age of 18, but that only says you must show up, or otherwise register a vote -- but nothing says how that vote is made in the privacy of the voting booth, and nobody knows if you have marked the ballot, or handed in a blank sheet.  (We call the non-vote votes "donkey votes".)

I'll bow out of this discussion now, as politics can get rather heated and cause controversy - and this is not the time, or place, for heavy, in-depth political back-and-forthing.   smiley

Of course QE2 is a monarch - she is one who reigns, not rules. There is a legal distinction between reigning and ruling 

I don't argue the merits of voluntary voting vs compulsory voting ... think we'd have to go back into the what, the 1800's? to discover the cultural foundation for each pathway ... how the government of any country forms and functions is found in its genesis 

I did find it interesting to see that voting in Australia is compulsory. I am trying to decide whether that would inhibit or prevent "voter intimidation". Something that still occurs in the US. But if the voting is compulsory then there is a means by which one's vote is registered by name or ID number and somehow tabulated ... 

Melanie, I myself don't get heated about politics or much of anything else. I do not discuss to gain dominance. I don't require another person agree with me, or believe what I believe; and I don't feel obligated to agree with any other person nor believe what they believe. IF two do not agree, so be it.  

But still, if you are upset, then retiring from the discussion is sensible. No need to strain your b.p. etc 

I did discover something about Australia both in their struggle with the covid and about their political system. Someone kindly listed a URL ref the covid has to become endemic (there are epidemics and pandemics and endemics) and truly I did not know there was a country on this planet that had compulsory voting -- I find that mind-boggling. 

Nice discussion, y'all! I appreciate that folks can politely disagree without coming to blows, unlike much of social media these days. And thanks, Melanie..I learned some things about Australia I didn't know. Voter apathy in the US is a big problem; many people feel they can't make a difference (the Hub and I vote in just about every local election).

Susan, I can see that granting "personhood" to women might've upset the historic, economic apple cart for a bit; but it was a long, drawn-out process and more complex. Women's autonomy also varied according to region and culture: consider the Quakers of Nantucket.
DArmistead, Women have not yet achieved parity in most nations. Mandates have been instituted in efforts to repair this imbalance in some nations. But mandates can be amended, revoked, or remain unenforced and etc.

I found some articles in Wikipedia and elsewhere ref voter apathy and compulsory voting. Coercion is known throughout history.

Ancient Rome had an interesting method - when they needed voters, slaves were sent out with ropes. The ropes used left red stains on the togas of those gathered up and herded into the forum to cast their (compulsory) vote.

I have a nice example of couverture working in my 2x g grandmother's favour. With her husband and son, Theresa was before the magistrate accused of stealing nuts from a local landowner. She had run away and then  tried to hide a bag of nuts beneath her skirt. She was found not guilty because she' might be supposed to be under the coercion of her husband'. She had no defence lawyer but the magistrate invoked the law which,at that time,  held that a married woman that commited a crime (with some exceptions) was  'assumed to be acting under her husbands coercion and not liable for her actions'  see 

Apparently she looked shocked at the decision and thanked the magistrate I think she was probably relieved not to have to pay three fines.

And you gotta wonder, Helen, what her spouse said and did (to her) when she got home.
@ Susan - I was not in any way upset.  I simply wished to avoid either of us appearing as such and getting flagged for being impolite, or breaking the rule against political discussions.   (Rule 1: Avoid unnecessary controversy: In particular, avoid contemporary politics and religion.)

Ah, "so we are to be rendered speechless by our fears?". Read that in a SciFi novel. Huh. 

Well, I can understand not touting a particular candidate or political party, nor touting any religion as the one true way. 

I did not see that whether a monarch rules or reigns is Political or Religious in this Modern Age. For some long period of time a monarch was both a god and a ruler. And after that was seen as divinely appointed but not as a god. That was in Europe. The ruler-god belief lasted longer elsewhere on the planet. 

However, I have seen over the last 40+ years that almost ANYTHING can be politicized or cloaked in a religion or both. 

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Good morning and happy NYE! I am a first time responder!

The weather: It is 18 degrees in Minnesota with falling temps and a windchill advisory. I may go for a ski later on.

Geneology: I am new to all of this. Last year, out of curiosity, inadvertently punched through a brick wall as I found my great grandmother's maiden name. I had no idea she had been married twice. I found her birth certificate and alas, it has lead to Mayflower ancestors and gateway ancestors. I asked my cousins about this and one found a box full of papers her mother was working on - vital records, birth and death certificates, photos. I had no idea. Once I found great great grandparents, the rest of their trees fell into place. Now I am trying to find ways to organize information and document everything. I took a DNA test a few weeks ago and am excited and nervous to get the results. Cheers!

Next steps? I am curious to find resources that don't cost so darn much to use. Also I am looking for a way to organize documents and information.

LOL - I am a high school English teacher and found out that I was teaching my 11th great grandfather's document, "Of Plymouth Plantation," by William Bradford, for years without knowing the connection.

Stay happy and healthy in the new year!

by Michelle Sonnega G2G1 (1.5k points)
HI, Michelle, and welcome to you first Chat! What a great find, your mother's research. That's always a huge leg up.

Let us know how your DNA results turn out. (I am always fascinated by what finds other people get from their DNA results.)

I had to laugh, too, about you teaching from you very own ancestor's work without knowing. What a connection!
Welcome, Michelle. Do keep us posted on your DNA results. I just got my DNA results back from MyHeritage last Friday morning and already I have made a 3rd great grandparent connection here on WikiTree. This one makes the 12th 3rd g-grandparent connected on WikiTree.
Hi Michelle, and I add my welcome to Pip's for your first chat. I'm sure you will be excited to receive you DNA results and congratulations on all of your finds!
I don't doubt that as you develop the Sources (documentation) on the profiles that you will discover more surprises
Good for you, that is exciting!  As you look at other family member profiles, take note of the sources they use.  Some will be undoubtedly helpful for you.

DESERTS -- News article this last week about how this Climate Change will alter the ski industry ... which has already been affected and the effects of this climate change are also felt by all winter sports and resorts 

I keep thinking about places like the Gobi desert and the Mojave and a few others and wonder how climate change will affect California, which is basically arid to start with - a solid 25% of it is desert ... The Great Basin Desert exists because of the "rainshadow effect" created by the Sierra Nevada of eastern California. When prevailing winds from the Pacific Ocean rise to go over the Sierra, the air cools and loses most of its moisture as rain.

Communities that are "too close" to the rising oceans (the whole of the USA coast) and communities that are in arid areas that could become and likely will become desert areas are going to have to relocate.  

Well, can you relocate the buildings? No. You can relocate the people and that is going to put pressure on other areas 

On the other hand there are areas yet in the US that do not have a high density of population so it might be that those who leave the ocean side or the encroachment of the desert may well relocate into those areas 

Climate change has always reshaped the distribution of communities of people, forced populations to migrate to less hostile regions and will do the same again 

Welcome to your first chat, Michelle! And hello to a fellow Minnesotan!
Hey fellow ‘Sotan! Thank you and Happy New Year!
Hi Michelle,

Hope you have a wonderful experience here on WIkiTree, welcome welcome!

I laughed about your William Bradford too! I had a comparable experience when I discovered that Sequoyah, my daughter's middle name, was also a family connection, which we had no idea when we named her, lol.
Try Family Search for your ancestors, it is free and has millions of records. Their search is somewhat awkward to use at the moment.

If you're looking for German records I'm sure there are many people who could help.
Welcome, Michelle, and happy New Year! Oh, the rabbit holes you'll go down...they quickly turn into a network of fun tunnels...

Where in MN are you? I lived there for a couple years, worked there summers after moving to MI, and ended up meeting my husband there.
Rabbit holes for sure! I am in southern MN near Northfield, and in the summers I am in Leelanau County, MI!! Small world!
Leelanau! Across the bridge about 8 hours from us! I think.

I lived in the Twin Cities, did theatre work in w. Minn. near Alexandria, where I met the love of my life.
I live in Rochester, Minnesota. Home of the Mayo Clinic. You are not faraway from Highway 52! I know where Northfield is!
Hey there neighbor! I was just in Rochester a couple of weeks ago at the farmers market.
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Happy New Year......well almost.....sneaking up on the weekend like Christmas did.  I was thinking, a couple of days ago, we're almost through the record breaking cold spell and survived the record heat spell, when I realized we're recovering from record flooding, slides and washouts.....what else could go wrong, with the big one (earthquake) awaiting offshore, triggering our twin backyard volcanoes and turning our floodplain and dyke system into jelly before the Spring melt and runoff.....sounds like a make work project.  Dang.....and I'm retired!  crying

by John Thompson G2G6 Pilot (362k points)
John. I got a message from an Aussie WikiTreer. They're already in 2022!

People (like me) who think they're retired really aren't. And as to the horrible weather you've experienced this past year, I think I'll stay in North Carolina, away from the coast!

Pip, ''staying away from the coast", Kathy laughed.....she doesn't blame you.  laugh

Oh, we'd love the warmer temps, but fleeing hurricanes got old pretty quick. Remember Floyd? The largest mandatory evacuation in history. We were in the middle of that. The four hour drive to Charlotte took us nine hours.
Floyd.....seems to ring a bell.....one of our daughters, when living in Wilmington, cracked her ribs when surfing ahead of a hurricane.
Oh, John, prepare for the worst we are told and hope for the best "they" say ... they are not the ones with the shovel in one hand and the bucket in the other hand ... I hope your family's 2022 goes well
Nothing so exciting as living in Historic Times.  

I am personally willing to live in less Historic Times, but ...

Yes, and there are people who complain about being bored. I could use some boredom

Wishing you and your family well, in the New Year, Susan.....boredom is out, this year, more excitement on the way.  cool

Gosh, "What could go wrong?" is a risky comment!.

My husband always used to quote the 'old Chinese curse', "May you live in interesting times."

The last few years sure have been that.

Well ,then, Momo.......I always considered myself a risky person......now I understand we're only living in 'interesting' times.  laugh

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Shocking ... it's actually snowing here as I type.  Forecasters say 5 to 10 inches by tomorrow noon.  Much needed moisture.  The mountains continue to get dumped on big time.  Better go find my snow shovel.

Went up to Laramie yesterday to visit with son-in-law's sister and her family from St. Louis.  We usually go up HWY 287 and the traffic was four or five times more than usual.  Turns out that I-80 was closed from Rawlins to the Eastern border due to wind and blowing snow so everyone was using 287 to get places.  We had our share of wind and snow also.

My silly mind is hoping for a change in the NYC ball drop tonight for the new year.  What with all we've been through the last couple of years I'd love to see that ball be a Covid-19 virus model ... doubt if that will happen ... ah, well.

Happy New Year everyone!!
by Bob Jewett G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
Hope those snows dampen the fires out your way, Bob. Why was everyone on the road yesterday? (We're not into driving during the holidays if we can help it.) Glad you were able to hook up with family despite the weather.

A Covid ball. Now that would be a drop. I guess we'll have to wait until the pandemic becomes endemic before we'll see that!
The image of the Ball Dropping as a Covid 19 Model ... now THAT gave me a bad case of the Horrors ...

AN EPIDEMIC is a disease that affects a large number of people within a community, population, or region. A PANDEMIC is an epidemic that's spread over multiple countries or continents. ENDEMIC is something that belongs to a particular people or country.Apr 2, 2020

Like totally weird, the covid in all its variants IS a pandemic BUT the resolution it seems is for the covid to become an ENDEMIC (not epidemic), country by country infection with COVID-19 was required for the pandemic to evolve to be endemic — a constant presence in our lives.

Like the common cold, the annual flu ... 

I told my kids early on with this thing that all the predictions of it being "over soon" were wrong, that those saying the jabs were a "cure" were totally wrong; that this thing was our new "normal" and that it was here to stay.  Now the experts are coming out and saying the same thing.  Wearing masks will be with us for longer than we like, perhaps forever.  Things will never go back to "how they were".  We may never again see the humongous gatherings, people so packed in there's no more room to move than there is for sardines in a can.  So-called "social distancing", even with some degree of herd immunity, is also likely to be a thing of our "new normal".  We just need to grit our teeth, plaster a smile on our faces, and adjust -- which we can do, because humans are extremely adaptive.  smiley

Quite right, Melanie, this is a "forever" virus.

 I was telling my Sig O the same thing back in August 2020 and he rejected the whole idea of it

Were mine still alive, he'd be just as dismissive.  Even though he did buy me a mug that stated I was always right.  cheeky

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On this day:

1621: The Peace of Nikolsburg is signed

1859: Queen Victoria chooses Ottawa as capital of Canada

1916: Alice Ball, the first female to receive a masters degree from the University of Hawaii, dies

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)

Here is Alice Ball's WikiTree profile:

Hi Jelena! Hooray for Alice Ball. I'm all for more women in higher education!

The Treaty of Nikolsburg for me today, Professor! Thanks. (Of course, I'll have to watch it after the Alabama-Cincinnati game.)

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Happy New Year all! This is my first time to post in this chat, so I'll start my new year off right.... and early. 

Genealogy:

  • While doing maintenance work on the 1776 Project, I suddenly realized that one of my ggggrandfathers is a "Patriot Ancestor," already approved by DAR. So now I'm looking into applying for a membership of my own. 
  • Expanding on this, I learned there's a DAR chapter in South Carolina called the "Fort Prince George Chapter," and another of my ancestors was a commandant of Fort Prince George. Hmmm? More research is ahead!

Meanwhile, here in Texas:

  • The weather is in the low 60's and the forecast calls for rain by late afternoon, so we're preparing to head for the woods.
  • Our little dirt trail is only a half-hour drive from home, and we go there often for a short hike. Sometimes we see a bobcat or a Red-Shouldered hawk or other critter.

Dinner will be traditional greens and black-eyed peas and a piece of 8-layer chocolate cake sent to us by our daughter who lives in England. (The cake was made in South Carolina, and like all things S.C. is wonderful!.) A great start to a New Year! May yours be a good one too.

by Betty Norman G2G6 Mach 3 (32.3k points)
Welcome to the Chat, Betty.  I've enjoyed getting to know people here.  Nice that you have the DAR connection.  I have relatives for no direct connections.  That's one cool thing about the Connection Finder.  Fun to play with.  I do have natives in my fathers tree.

Hiya, Betty! Glad you've joined us. Y'all had some pretty warm temps there in Texas not long ago. 

Great discoveries on your lines, DAR and all. Very cool.

Supper for us will be Kentucky ham and black-eyed peas.

Since you have South Carolina ancestry, I checked to see if we connected there. We didn't. sad My families were all upstate before coming to North Carolina.

Welcome to the chat, Betty, from another Texan! I live just north of Dallas where it is very cloudy and some scattered showers. The freeze comes in tomorrow night (Saturday). Supposed to be in the low 20's up here.

Good luck with your Revolutionary War research! That was an exciting find.

She sent the actual piece of cake? It was safe to eat?

Knew someone whose father wanted to share the thanksgiving dinner with him and sent him a turkey sandwich which arrived covered by fuzzy green mossy looking "skin" and a nasty smell ... with sorrow, he said, he went out and gave the sandwich a decent burial. He never told his father he had to discard the sandwich

Oh no no no no. The cake arrived from an awesome bakery in South Carolina.... yes, a WHOLE cake. I watched the UPS delivery person tiptoe up to my door with the fragile, perishable item and deposit it reverently inside my door. Perfect! Still frozen. We had to wait for a day while it defrosted in the fridge. But NOW? YUM!

Oh, good, I was something worried and having nightmares about food poisoning, which on top of all the other messes, means you'd be left in the parking lot at the hospital barfing from the stomach wash etc, while tended by an EMT because there'd be no room IN the hospital ... 

Chocolate delight. Oh, my. I know my Sig O gave EVERYONE on our list, each of them, a 2 pound 2 oz bag of chocolate kisses all wrapped in colored foils ... lot of very happy thank yous came our way from that ... heavenly delight indeed 

Welcome Betty! Send some greens and black eyed peas my way! laugh

Welcome to the chat Betty,

Sounds like a delightful start to the new year! You must've been around a while, if you're working on the 1776 project (I have not been around WikiTree that long, just since last summer, but it's taken me a while to get my bearings) glad you are making time for this chat, it's a friendly place.

Actually, this cake was named Chocolate Bliss. And that's not a misnomer. Eight layers of choc-on-choc. laugh

Welcome to the chat, Betty, and a happy New Year! I've just recently started work on the 1776 Project too, having 5 or 6 RevWar ancestors in New England and 2 or 3 in VA (so far). Tracking their military units has been quite a challenge.

Birds: here in MI my husband keeps the restaurant open for the usual chickadees and nuthatches; today while walking with our dog I heard a pileated woodpecker calling across the road. He then flew over to a cedar tree in plain sight. Magical, and good New Year's luck for sure!

Not having any black-eyed peas in the house, I was able at least to whip up a pan of cornbread! You can take the gal out of the South, but...;)
+28 votes

¡Buenos días a todos from the Old Pueblo! It is 9am in Tucson and a chilly 52F (11.1C) with an expected high of 59F (15C) and a 90% chance of rain. The weather here is as dreary as the news that there is a reduced supply of ‘the bubbly’ (champagne) to bring in the New Year due to low grape production from climate change!

I heard from my brother several times this week as to a change in our mum’s status. For the past several days, she has not been eating and does not seem to recall how to drink from a straw. The hospice/palliative care nurse told my brother she believes mum is ‘transitioning’ (from life to death). I have a sister who lives in North Caroline who is planning on flying to Milwaukee this week. It is difficult to know if the trip will be possible given the high number of flights that cancelled due to the Omicron variant, not to mention the very bad weather that has occurred along the southern coastal regions.

My brother keeps me apprised with every-other-day reports. Even if she stops eating and drinking, it could be another few weeks. My brother and I had a similar thought when we spoke two days ago. Our dad died on 11 January 1982. We believe it would not be coincidence if mum should transition then as dad was madly in love with mum and would be certain to meet her on the other side. Well, he will be there whether it is the 11th or another day.

I had a conference call with another nurse sleep research colleague this past Monday. We are co-leading the next paper that will cover night shift work and associated health problems. We are gearing it toward nurse managers in order to work from the ‘top down’ to make changes in health delivery systems. These poorer health outcomes include type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, mood disorders and vehicular accidents due to ‘drowsy driving.’ We will be adding a section on night work and Covid as nurses are expected to work 12 to 18 hours during the pandemic and they are not only burning out, but can barely take care of their own health and that of their families with these hours.

As to genealogy, I have still been following up on revising/adding to profiles in Cornwall and Scotland. In addition, I found that several ancestors to and siblings of Bob Fosse (featured choreographer this past week) needed biographies, connecting and such so I have been working on these family members. I will continue this work over the New Year weekend.

As this  is the last weekend of this 2021, I will celebrate with a bottle of champagne (that I purchased last year). I will be alone at home self-isolating and will toast family and friends, including my WikiTree kin! My sincere Best Wishes for a Happy and Healthy New Year! Here are my toasts for all of you:

"May we live to learn well, and learn to live well."

"May the very best of your past be the very worst of your future." 

"May we always be grateful for the past, find joy in the present, and remain excited for the future."

by Carol Baldwin G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
edited by Carol Baldwin
Carol, I'm sad for you about your Mom.  My mother did the same thing and transitioned very peacefully.
Carol, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's decline. Thoughts and prayers for you and all your family.

I imagine that night-shift workers really do have a hard time with sleep, since everything business is geared for the daytime. I'll be interested to see the paper when y'all get it done.

We'll be home alone here, too. And we still have our year-old bottle of champaign, too!

Look for me in the spring!
Sad news, indeed
Great toasts, Carol! Do you mind if I borrow them?
Carol, I hope your Mum's transition is the best possible, and wish the best for you and your brother. No matter how wonderful and full and satisfying a life is, it's always hard to say goodbye.

We finished up the prosecco making snow-mosas when we got snow this week, and ended up seeing in the New Year with blackberry hard cider. Since I only seem to like crazy-expensive champagne, it worked out well.
Hi Pip, thank you for your words of support. You are a gift. I'll keep you apprised. My focus for the paper is short sleep and nutrient intake that contributes to obesity, CVD & diabetes. Hope you enjoyed bringing in the New Year. I added boozy little chocolate truffles to my champagne  menu.
Hi M...Happy 2022! Be my guest as to toasts. I'll have to check chat later today (Saturday) as I have been "New Year's cleaning.
Hi Momo! Happy 2022! Thank you for your kind words. Mum's a tough chick and could hang in for a bit. I hope for a peaceful and pain free transition on a day to day basis. Blackberry hard cider sounds delicious and nutritious! I'll be happy to taste test. Send to Tucson!!!
+27 votes
Happy New Year from Brightlingsea, Essex, England

Thought I would get in early this week. We have had a number of rainy days since Christmas. though it has been dull today the rain has kept away.

Am hoping for a better 2022 - as there is much to do in a number of areas of my life. Catching up on things I have missed - like a holiday. though have a cruise booked for later this year.  Have been getting back to Ballroom dancing which I enjoy. I learnt to dance in my 50s and realise should have done that when I was alot younger.

Have plenty to keep me occupied on wikitree in particular my Brightlingsea connections are proving to be great to research. Though I  probably need to spend a bit of time on  my Dad's side of the family from  the county of Westmorland.

thanks to Pip for all his efforts in keeping weekly chat going. Its great to read about others who share this absorbing interest..

All Good Wishes for 2022......
by Chris Burrow G2G6 Pilot (221k points)
Chris, I'm wishing you a fabulous New Year! It's always great to hear from you and what you are up to in Brightlingsea.
I wish you success in catching up your life Chris! I am hoping for the same. Ballroom dancing sounds very fun and good exercise as well. I'll bet you are very popular on the floor! Does Brightlingsea have an active club?
+29 votes
Wishing everyone a healthy and happy new year.
by Kay Knight G2G6 Pilot (610k points)
Same to you, Kay
Same to you Kay.  Thank you for all your help this year!
And you, too, Kay. You've had a year of difficulties. I am so glad to see you being as busy as ever on WikiTree.
+26 votes

Thank you for hosting Pip

Weather here started dank but at the moment we have sun shining on surfaces - been mostly dank around here, dungeon dank, and I've acquired the expectation it will promptly turn dank again is a few more hours ... a gloomy expectation 

DENVER, CO -- Boulder Co on fire -- we have WikiTree people around there don't we? That's right, Gurney Thompson at the least is in that area ... totally nasty and a fast moving fire and very very destructive - 600+ homes plus the business community and etc NOT GOOD NEWS 

MY NEPHEW acting as executor of his mother and clearing out behind her death on Oct 15th ... we have communicated -- I  just realized the other day that's he's 68 or so ... wow? She was a hoarder. I recall once -- when she shipped off to Texas for medical treatments -- that my mother, Sig O and I had to go into her apartment and clear out, took us nearly a week of labors+. If my nephew is dealing with something like that ... I'm afraid to ask him. I know her son in law had to go through the same incredible situation in a later year 

GENEALOGICAL EFFORTS -- ending the month of Dec with 1,555+ Have been working on the descendant families of > William Augustine Cloud (1810-1870) | WikiTree FREE.   Family Tree I am not the only PM on that family line of course. I'm mostly doing profile improvement type stuff. Lot of those profiles were looking scraggly. 

PIP, I want to ask why you are not going to paint or have painted the upstairs and decided I will not ask. I don't want to know. You keep SAYING you ain't gonna have it done or not do it yourself but that horn-honking attention-grabbing Declaration only provokes the question I will not ask. 

 Alrighty yes, let's see, thanx to the host, weather mentioned, gen. efforts, threw in a bit of fun in poking at Pip and his Manifesto on Painting, dropped a tad bit of family 'scandal', ... hmm ... think all the bases done been touched and I'm rounding the corner at 3rd and heading to Home base ... woohoo 

by Susan Smith G2G6 Pilot (663k points)
Thanks for the call out. I actually live about 40 minutes south of that fire but my sister was evacuated and lives just west of the fire area in Boulder.  (Near NCAR for those familiar). Her house is fine although her family is out of town.

Susan, my mom was a hoarder, kinda. We were at the house today going through cabinets and such. We found dozens and dozens of candles, about half used, so we tossed them. There were plenty of unused candles to keep us going for a long time yet.

HA! We are having a painter do the work. The downstairs we will not be using that much, but we did find an unopened can of near-white paint that we can use if we have to. The painter (a good friend) was at the house today removing a wallpaper border in the kitchen and informal dining area. He's got a lot of patching to do here and there. I expect he'll be done in a couple of weeks.

Here's wishing you and Sig O a most wonderful 2022! I look forward to hearing from you all year in the Chat. Always informative, always entertaining!

Sounds okay about your mother, Pip, it's one thing not to waste, which I suspect was what your mother was doing -- or was "programmed" to do growing up but a hoarder of the kind that has mounds of stuff piled up and "deer trails" snaking around between them ... that was my sister 

But yeah, you mom was "kinda" ... so were my parents ... the idea of waste not = want (lack) not can cause this sort of thing ... 

upstairs / downstairs and you will not, you say, be using the downstairs but you have said also you are having it painted downstairs but not upstairs, where you will spend most of your time?? ...

I'm here to say none of this is making sense to me ...

Have a pleasant January

Hope your weather gets a little sunnier Susan! Loved you final paragraph, lol.

Hoarding is tough to deal with. Lately I have tried to be more proactive about using things up and getting unused stuff out of the house, so my kids won't have to deal with AS MUCH stuff if when I kick the bucket. I will still have too much stuff, but hopefully all in use, workshop supplies, and that.. I told them they can sell it all on etsy, lol.

Still waiting for someones descendant to surface who can take on the family history stuff though. Guess I'll need to stay alive until then.

Anyway, enjoyed your post.

+29 votes
Hails, Horns and Happy new year, Wikipeeps!

Another year has come and gone and man have there been some crazy discoveries for me this year. What will happen next year? Well, I talk about some of the things on my wishlist. Chipping away at a brick wall. Would rather use a wrecking ball....

Check out the blog about it: https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2021/12/52-ancestors-week-52-future.html

And to close out the new year, I just met an Aleardi cousin on Facebook who descends from my great-grandfather's sister, Concetta. So many family members. I think I need a scorecard. Or at least a family tree. Gee. Where could I get one of those? =P

I hope everyone has a great new year. Let's usher in 2022 like a new friend. Tell it we don't want any trouble. Just go about your business.

Thanks for hosting the chat as always, Pip. I hope you have a better year! =D

OH! I forgot to mention that I made a thread asking about making an Italians in Haverhill sticker. Check it out: https://www.wikitree.com/g2g/1348324/italians-in-haverhill-sticker

I hope it's in the right spot!
by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (784k points)
YOU have had a grand and glorious 2021 and it looks like it will be just as grand and glorious in 2022. That's good news.
Thanks, Suzie. =D I hope so too!
Chris, you've had a great year of discoveries. Let's keep that streak going!! Gotta break that Gullo brickwall. I can't wait!

You've also had a stellar year publishing your blog. Congratulations to you for all the successes you've, WikiTree, blog, Facebook, weekly challenges. I'm proud of all of your efforts in so many genealogy venues.
Thanks! It's definitely been a wild ride! =D
Hope the coming year is just as productive for you, Chris!
Thanks! I hope so, too! =D
+29 votes
Hi Everyone,

It has been a while ago since I last answered the Weekend chat. But being home alone on New Years Eve due to a lock down in theNetherlands I have  time te do so.

Life:

A lot of plans to generate income with history and genealogy...... Happy kids still studying and a father with his partner who  recently recovered from COVID

Genealogy:

received the geneology research of a recently deceased uncle who also owned the research done by my grandfather. And my aunt from my fathers side of the family contacted me. They are moving and she had papers from my grandparents... would I like to have them..... And yesterday I got a lot of genealogical information from my fathers partner about her family. So a lot of new things to add to WikTree.

WikiTree:

The Netherlands Project is buzy reorganizing. Due to it being one of the oldest non-english  projects  we had to invent the wheel (dutch saying) Now with more geographical projects, things have become more standarized etc.  Changing the name from Dutch Roots Project to Netherlands project didn't help either. The consequences are we have a lot of pages we don't use anymore, have become obsolete because of changing names, ways of working or just offer the wrong information, etc. So lots of work to do. Lucky enough we have a good project team and everyone is working hard to get to the result we want. Still a long way to go.
by Eef van Hout G2G6 Pilot (192k points)
That is good news about your good fortune of genealogy studies by others -- seems to be a recurrent phenom since some others have been equally fortunate recently
Hi Eef, I'm happy to hear that you got a lot of family research papers! How great that they are not just throwing it away!

Gelukkig nieuwjaar from Sweden!
Eef, I hope that all those records and documents turn out to be a treasure trove of new information.

Looks like you've got your hands full what with the reorganisation of the project, but from what I know of the excellent members that you have, the work will be accomplished.
Happy New Year Eef!

Isn't it great being the one in your family who people think of when they find those papers?

Go you!!
+26 votes

Hi from southern Ontario,

Chez moi/at home: what's happening here? I just got my Covid Booster booked for Jan 14th. We were waitlisted from Dec 15th. My daughter who had Covid is feeling much better, her 8 yr old daughter tested positive early last week, but is totally asymptomatic, still bouncing off the walls and doing cartwheels. Her brother is still testing negative which means the kids can visit their dad.

We have a New Years event planned with immediate family, an outside gathering on Sunday afternoon with bonfires and a very mixed menu. 

Weather: Above freezing about 4 C, quite gloomy, most of western Canada has to understate the conditions, completely frigid temps, records being broken almost daily, minus 34C in Regina, Saskatchewan, one community in the Northwest territories hit minus 51.1C on Boxing Day. 

Alton Cemetery project and other genealogy: I have been following my plan to go through my watchlist by oldest edit date and add/edit as and if needed sources, biography improvements, formatting, 22 profiles improved this week. 

I asked the Secret Santa Elves for any further information that could be found about Jane Unknown the wife of McClellan-277, my dear Robbie's 5 x GGF. Sometimes a proven lack of information can be useful. One Elf found evidence that if we assume the couple got married at the Presbyterian Church at Cherry Valley the records of the marriage record were likely lost along with the minister Samuel Dunlop's papers when his house was burnt to the ground during the Cherry Valley Massacre.

I'll get back to the cemetery project next week. 

What else: The amaryllis in my indoor kitchen garden are growing well, I have 7 bulbs, 3 of which have 1 bud, 2 of them have 2 buds and the other 2 are growing but no buds yet. Some are bright red with white, some are pink and if I remember correctly, one is pure white. 

And last week Susan Smith asked for a picture of my library, I'll see if I can get that done!

by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (757k points)
Howdy, M! Fire is the bane of genealogists! There is a county near where I live whose courthouse burned in the late 1800s. Everything was lost, so many records that would solve family relationships, land ownership, migrations, etc.
Sound like progress in all areas - a good start to the year! When you say "indoor kitchen garden", is that a windowsill, or something more extensive? Sounds lovely anyway.
Kitchen garden is probably a little misleading, its a plant collection that just happens to be in my kitchen in the winter.

I have a brugmansia tree that lives outside from mid-May to late September but then has to come inside. I can't carry the pot any further than the kitchen and it gets good light there.

I have several amaryllis that also have to come inside for the winter. Their pots go in the big pot with the tree, as well as potted bulbs that I just have to buy.

If you go to

https://www.wikitree.com/photo/jpg/Virtual_Vacation-26

you will see what it looked like last year in February 2021.
Wow, spectacular!
Hi M, late in responding this weekend. First, I am so glad to know that your daughter is doing better from her bout with Covid and very glad to know that you are scheduled for your booster. I love to have at least one amaryllis in my home this time of year and purchased it this past week at a local market. I'll be looking for the VV now, but understand if there isn't one given this holiday weekend. My sincere Best Wishes to you and your family for a Happy and Healthy 2022 New Year! Oh, and again, be my guest with the toasts. They have been family toasts for years, but have no idea where they came from or who penned them.
P.S. Just saw the photo of your kitchen flowers! Gorgeous!
+25 votes
Happy New Year (almost) from north Georgia, USA!

The weather is rainy, again.

We will not be doing any celebrating of the New Year away from our home. We are going to voluntarily "lock down" for a while to try to avoid getting COVID during this surge. I'll probably just go to bed at my usual time. I never feel well when I stay up past midnight and I'd rather start the New Year tomorrow feeling refreshed than fatigued. We don't drink anymore. I never did much and now that hubby's on blood thinners he is advised to abstain also.

We found out this morning that husband's son and daughter-in-law are both sick with COVID--fever, coughing, fatigue. The grandson-in-law is recovered enough to go back to work.

My genealogy work has been fairly typical for me this week.

Hoping for all to have a wonderful weekend! Take care and may 2022 be a great year for all!
by Nelda Spires G2G6 Pilot (576k points)
Nelda,with the record high COVID cases and hospital admissions in the last couple of days our plans for this weekend are get up each morning, survive, and go back to bed.
Used to be the only winter bummer was "the common cold" or "the flu" and now we have the covid ... and worse yet you can have two or more of those as partners in making you feel miserable ... gah !!
"Gah," is right, Susan. Just found out a nephew-in-law is sick, too, but he can't determine if it's COVID because he can't find a test to confirm. When I picked up a prescription for my husband yesterday there was a sign on the drive-thru window that they had no tests and didn't know when they would get any. We usually meet friends on Saturday for lunch, but I called them earlier today and asked if they minded much if we didn't this week. I'm not terribly afraid of getting anything from them because they are as careful as we are but it's just best not to be out in public places right now. It's crazy how fast this new variant has spread--and the older variants haven't magically disappeared.
Sometimes it feels like life is that way, Dale...
Well, we survived 2020 and we survived 2021 and if we stay paranoid and cautious and uber careful we may survive the virus in 2022 ... and it ain't going away, I think 2023 will be one more year in the chain of years ... virus keeps mutating you know?

Continue to safeguard yourself and your Sig O. And hugs to both of you. You NEED a hug.
Thanks for the hug, Susan. I think you are right about the virus and its constant mutants being here to stay. Not how we wanted to spend our golden years.
Nelda, per your other comment above: you are the first person I have ever known to be a book and page counter like me! I have kept records since about 2001. The best year I had was the one where I was laid up and could do very little but read. A few years ago was the worst, less tan 10,000 pages.

Our celebration was very low key. We've got too many other things going on right now.
Pip, I have kept personal database for books I've read or want to read for many years, but I have to admit the book count and page count came from GoodReads.com. They had a reading challenge the past two years (maybe longer--I wasn't a member before.) I don't know if they'll do it again this year--nothing in email or on the website yet. Anyway, I log in what I read there and they keep track of the pages. At the end of the year they send out an email letting you know details about your reading for the year.
Now, that is cool! I’ve been doing it manually all these years. I’d love to hand the chore off to someone else. I’ll check it out!
Nelda, I am checking out the app you mentioned above. Still figuring it out but since it syncs with Amazon Kindle I might like it, once I figure it out. Today I have been working on the family of my latest friend that died last year. I might start on some books I already have in my Kindle library later.
Good idea to lie low for now! Hope the coming days are pleasant and productive for you, and the rest of your family is soon mended and bulletproof!
Hi Nelda, sorry to hear about the sick family members...hope they recover soon. Please stay safe. We are lucky to both be self-employed and able to limit our contacts...but it bums me out that many people around here are so reckless. (Their cavalier behavior is interfering with "Mah Freedom"! Grrr...)
+28 votes
Good morning everyone.  I got through Christmas and the first anniversary of Phils death on the 26th.  It was hard, but I had a wonderful dream that he was with me giving a great hug that lasted forever.  It really helped me get through his day.

Now I'm packing because it seems the new house building has suddenly sped up.  The stager came yesterday and gave me instructions of everything to remove.  The mover is coming Wed for that.  We hope to list it on the 10th.  This sale has to close before my other one!  Then I'll figure out what to do with myself and two kitties for however long it will be, though that will be a good problem to have.

Not much genealogy with the Christmas trip and all the emotions there.  I did get about half of the unsourced Acadians cleaned up.  Still working on checking for missing Acadians (there were over 1700 possibilities to evaluate).  I've lined up my next projects of checking two reliable Acadian sources to make sure all the information is entered into profiles.  I already see there are some discrepancies that need to be researched.  Gisele and I are hoping to get all the sources we have entered before we die!

Now back to packing lamps, books, rugs and moving furniture!
by Cindy Cooper G2G6 Pilot (338k points)
edited by Cindy Cooper

First anniversaries of this kind are the worst, but what a lovely dream for you to have.  

(Today would have been my 23rd wedding anniversary, but such was not meant to be, so anniversaries are very much on my mind.)

Cindy, December for us will be one of hard memories. I lost my mom on the 14th two years ago and my dad this past 20th. Your strength is encouraging to me.

We have decided not to stage our home when we get ready to sell it. We just want to get the move over with. Staging means we'd have to come back and get stuff all over again.

Happy to hear about your wonderful hug. The 1st anniversary of my John's death is coming up on the 19th, hard enough to get through Christmas, must have been doubly hard for you with the 26th as his date.

Hugs,

Momo
Hi Cindy, your dream is marvelous! They are with us even when they aren't with us and dreams are the avenue for connecting. Deaths of loved ones are so difficult any time of the year; however, when they happen during holidays the grief drags down the 'celebratory' nature. My dad died shortly after the new year in 1982 and the loss and memories still encroach.

I am so very glad to know that packing and building is going well. I wish you all the very best in the 2022 New Year. Sending hugs your way!
+24 votes
To the person who said that Aussie is already into 2022, I am about to have my weekly chat with my family in NZ - it is 9 AM in NZ on New Years Day and 3 PM EST on New Years Eve  in Toronto!!

Sadly I also have to announce that Betty White passed away today - 31 Dec 2021.
by Robynne Lozier G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
Robynne, we got a greeter's announcement of the New Year (for him) early for the rest of us. He lives in Australia.
+23 votes

Currently, it's 8˚ C and mostly cloudy in Fort Erie. Tonight's predicted low is 4˚ C, and tomorrow is predicted to be 9˚ C with "light rain".

The light of my life and the delight of my eyes is busy doing Christmas cards. We're going to claim that we're not late, since the 12 days of Christmas run from Christmas Day to Epiphany (January 6). That's our story and we're sticking with it. Although, per usual, some people are probably going to get "Happy Sir John A. McDonald's Birthday" cards, or maybe even Valentine's Day cards. What we really need around here are elves to get all that done with a personal touch.

I'm not a complete lump. I cleaned something today. (I clean something every year, whether I need to or not.)

I'm trying to get a few last things done on profiles with a Last Name At Birth of Phillips, Westfall, and Gierszewski before the end of the month. I also got the list on the Largest Unconnected Branches page back up to 100 branches, trying to prepare for the upcoming Connect A Thon. (The last CAT seriously depleted the list, which was great. I'm hoping for more of the same this time.) I have made it down to the Germany section in my current pass of checking the profiles listed on the Let others know what locations you are working on page, marking newly connected branches, deleting the branches that have been connected for more than two weeks, and -- where I can -- adding more branches so that there are at least five unconnected branches for each jurisdiction.

by Greg Slade G2G6 Pilot (695k points)

Greg, I with I was on your schedule, cleaning something once a year. I have dish duty so it's at least every other day! surprise

Usually we keep our decorations up until Epiphany. This year however, as soon as the kids left, we took all of it down. "All" meaning four stockings and one small tree.

You're not late, Greg. You're just simply early. I'm still getting cards after I return to Minnesota on Monday. I've sent mine out 11 days before Christmas.
What a good idea - I might try that card trick! Happy New Year!
Even though I worked for Hallmark Cards for almost 20 years, I almost never sent Christmas cards, I was too busy, so I sent New Years cards instead.

I don't know if I'm supposed to say this but here goes.

Now we send e-cards from Jacquie Lawson, if you haven't heard of her, the cards are wonderful, many animated, with music, some have games or jigsaw puzzles for kids and adults.
I get the Jacquie Lawson cards from my fellow choir members! They are amazing!
I've gotten them too - they are neat! Everyone does it differently. My Mom had a cousin who was an artist, and she would do an artwork every year that incorporated photos of her immediate family members, and then it would be photo copied in color and everyone would receive theirs in February or March. I miss her, she could do amazing things with a crayon.

I don't send out a lot of cards these days, but the ones I do send out, I like to work on my penmanship and put a personal note. I think I would like to increase my letter writing this year. People keep letters, and they are re-discovered by future generations.

I just finished a "family reunion" on Zoom. When I was a kid, the descendents of my great-grandparents on the Slade side used to get together every New Year's Day. (It worked out nicely for us, because nobody is crazy enough to schedule an event on New Year's so we never had any conflicts, and nobody in our famly cared about sports, so we didn't lose all the guys to watching football.) So, I decided to try reviving the custom. Virtually, anyway.

One of my third cousins read us parts of a memoir written by his grandmother, which ended up answering two questions which have puzzled me for years, and I figured I would never know the answers to:

The reason my great-grandparents moved from Niagara Falls to New Liskeard was because my great-grandfather read an ad in the newspaper in 1891 offering free land to homesteaders.

The reason they moved from New Liskeard to South Vancouver was because they decided to take a trip to Vancouver for a vacation, and my great-grandmother's health improved so much once they got there that they decided to stay, and wrote the kids to move out. (There were 10 kids who survived childhood, so she wrote that the people in South Vancouver were asking, "Will the Slades ever stop coming?")

On cards: I always tried to do email greetings, or print something up and photocopy it. That's because my handwriting is terrible. (I probably should have been a doctor.) But the light of my life and the delight of my eyes puts a handwritten note in every card, and makes many of the cards herself. Now, all the people we write to have a better idea of how much we like them, because handwritten cards are much more meaningful, even though they do take a lot more time.

I never read Jacquie Lawson cards. In fact, I put my email address on their "do not send" list. It's not that I don't like any of their designs, but the attack surface on a site with that much scripting gives a security geek like me hives.

+23 votes

Betty White died today at the age of 99 (b. Jan 17, 1922)

AND to top off the Year of The Weird -- it rained fish in Texarkana.

by Susan Smith G2G6 Pilot (663k points)

We've had everything else to deal with this year. Why not raining fish, too! laugh

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