The WikiTree community has decided that an estimated date of birth is essentially required, particularly so that individuals can be shown and ordered within their approximate time periods. This is expressed in the guidelines, and arises when adding a new profile: "If you don't know the birth or death date for a person, you're encouraged to estimate a date... An estimated date is required when creating a new person if a reliable birth or death date is unknown." https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Help:Estimated_Dates#Estimating_Dates
Rules of thumb are also offered for estimates. "For example, in the 1700s and 1800s in Northern Europe and the New England colonies, women often married at about 20-21 and men around 25. The first child was typically born within the first year of marriage." https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Help:Estimated_Dates#Estimating_Dates
These vary somewhat for other time frames and regions, as described in Wikipedia and elsewhwere: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_European_marriage_pattern
Following these guidelines, we apply whatever general as well as particular information we have to come up with a best estimate, and describe the basis for the estimate. But a question that often arises - and which is not directly addressed in the current guidelines but perhaps ought to be - is whether and when to use the indicator labelled "about" or the indicator labelled "before."
Some seem to use "about" even when "before" might be more likely to be and to remain accurate (i.e. unless and until a definitive date is found). For example, if what we know is that a child was born in 1600 - but we don't have info on the siblings - then we could apply the rule of thumb to suggest that the father was born "about" 1575 - or that he was born "before" 1575. If we know this to be the first child, then using about seems fine. But if, as is often the case with limited information, we do not know about the siblings, then using "before 1575" is much more likely to be correct.
In particular, indicating that such a father's birth was "about 1575" could be off by several decades - since he could easily have been in his thirties, forties or even fifties when such a child was born. Using instead "before 1575" (or as I tend to do before 1580) is not only more likely to be accurate - since it was fairly uncommon for the father to be under 25 (and even less likely under 20 at the time) - but also the indication, even in the rare cases in which it is off, would only be off by a few years - not by decades.
In these situations, it seems both more accurate and more helpful to use "before" in the toggle field - and in the text to state "before about" (i.e. "before about X, based on Y").
Put another way, when we follow the rules of thumb based on a child of interest without knowing his or her siblings, then we are really making two assumptions when we use "about" rather than "before":
- That the parent was at least 20/21 (mother) or 25 (father) when the child was born; AND
- That this child was their eldest child.
This is particularly important for many of the immigrant profiles that I and others deal with for two reasons:
- In many cases, we know the immigrant (such as someone going from France to Nouvelle-France, or England to New England) and the parents named on their subsequent marriage record - but not their siblings (who in most cases did not emigrate); and
- In many if not most cases, the emigrating ancestor is not actually the eldest who might have title, land or another reason to stay - but rather a younger sibling who had none of those - and was therefore recruitable (as a soldier or "Fille du Roi" for example), or otherwise emigrated in search of an opportunity they did not have.
Finally, it should be noted that when the term "before" is used, the toggle field as it is currently set does not specify whether this is certain or uncertain. That is another reason to consider using "before about X, based on Y" in the text explanation. And when it is certain, the explanation can also address that, "before X" or "after X" based on a particular known event or record.
If anyone thinks this is not right please let me know - and in any case whether something about the selection of "about" versus "before" should be considered for addition to the guidelines. Thanks!