Your response is so much appreciated.
John*s father disappeared in a snowstorm in North Dakota, while looking for lost neighbours. His wife Julia Merry Todd, died in childbirth shortly after. John was cared for by William and Caroline Merry and then his grandparents, Lorenzo and Julia Merry. The family has no record of who took John when he was 10 years old and one of my great aunts heard years later that he was out west/ Montana? and a lawman.
Again, thanks for your professionalism !