Hi Chris, in my spare time I dabble a little in website design and maintenance, but I am not a designer by profession. I am a photographer, some of the time, and used to often judge photographic work, so am familiar with aesthetics. I can certainly have a look at a mock-up of what I mean in my comments above. Its all a matter of presentation. May I ask if there was a G2G discussion before implementing this change? I should like to read up on it if there was.
I am sure this would be all a matter of adjusting CSS sheets and not a major change. All I am suggesting is lets make the change made a little more pleasing to the eye.
One of the other problems with the existing profile design is the amount of white space, during editing, between the data section and the edit box, when the profile has a huge family (this as you know is listed down the right column). That may not be possible to fix, and could be disruptive if you try. My suggestion seems very easily fixable.