Martha was born in 1815. She passed away in 1898.
Matha J Thomason (her middle name is speculated to be Jane) never married, despite giving birth to at least 6 children. Given the number of years between some of her childrens' births (Richard Samuel and John Nelson, and Frances Jane and Mary Etta being the most significant two cases), it is entirely possible that there were additional children who did not survive and not recorded on any surviving documents.
DNA analysis supports the premise that the father of John Nelson and Ann Elizabeth was Abner J Harris. And Abner J Harris is named as the father on Ann ELizabeth's death record.
1860 Census lists "Marty Tompson", Female with the occupation of "Grass Widow". The definition of this term is:
noun 1. a woman who is separated, divorced, or lives apart from her husband. 2. a woman whose husband is away from home frequently or for a long time, as on business or to pursue a sport or hobby. 3. Archaic. a discarded mistress. a woman who has borne an illegitimate child.
Note the second archaic definition. In 1860 that could very well be the common definition and not so archaic, and it would fit very well with her apparent situation.
At the time that all Martha J's children were born, Abner J Harris was living in Upshur County, married to another woman, Mary Frances (nee) SHarpe, and fathering several children by her.
My mother, a great-granddaughter of John Nelson Thomason, recounted family stories to me that the father of all Martha J's children was, "A traveling salesman." I have found nothing to support these tales nor anything that would indicate that Abner J Harris was a traveling salesman.
Griffith-11238 17:32, 28 March 2024 (UTC)Malcom Griffith
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