The first time was when we went to see Irene at Fernhill in 1985 to "claim" my grandmother Myrtle Annie HAWKINS Scott's diamond engagement ring (which she had left to the first of her grandchildren to get married, but which I was the one to claim).
The second was when we went to stay with her overnight in Colwall in 1999, after a family wedding. On this second occasion, Irene discovered in conversation that my wife had never seen the remaining ruins of a Roman town or city, so she promptly decided that this was a severe lack in my wife's education, and the next morning we all drove some 50 miles to Venta Silurum -- one of the best excavated and preserved of the Romano-British towns in Britain, built in the second century and with defensive walls still up to 5 meters high in places.
Irene would have been 88 years of age at the time, but she walked the entire town that morning with my wife explaining its history. And then we went on to Chepstow Castle too (where Irene decided that she was getting a little tired and would skip the climb up to the battlements).
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Irene sent me documents, she told me stories, she informed me about a trip to Scotland when she and her father were trying to "prove" her father's great-grandfather's birth in Ayrshire. (It was a complete failure at the time.) Above all she encouraged me, and we spent hours on trans-Atlantic phone calls at my expense as I squeezed every truth and untruth out of her very prodigious brain!
Irene loved history, and she passed that love on to her son Humphrey, who became a full Professor of Economic Geography largely because of his mother's determination to ensure that he became a useful member of society!