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Little is known of Tabitha Wright's parentage or early life. Two very different accounts are given of her birth.
One set of family genealogies (relating to her 2nd husband: Thomas Blanford) state she was born in 1638 in Maryland but this is unlikely as there were very few European settlers in that new colony at that early date and a 1638 birth would have Tabitha giving birth to her last child at nearly 50 years old, quite elderly for a woman in that time and place.
The second set of genealogies, who mention her first husband: William Mills, date Tabitha's birth in 1647, in Calvert County, Maryland. This is more plausible and it has been adopted here.
There were two Wright brothers: Arthur and Ishmael, of London, England, who emigrated together to Maryland in the late 1630s or early 1640s. Initially they settled on the Patuxent River in Calvert County; around 1655, Arthur moved south-east to Dorchester County across the Chesapeake Bay. Ishmael remained in Calvert County, dying there about 1660. He and his wife, Ann, are the most-likely candidates for Tabitha's parents but as yet unproven. They are known to have had a daughter, Sarah, born about 1633, probably in England.[1]
The Wrights were yeomen, independent landowners, and "planters," no doubt of tobacco as that was Maryland's cash crop in the 17th Century, especially around the Patuxent River. There are a number of Maryland land documents from the 1640-50s that cite Ishmael Wright and his wife "Ann" or "Annie" - no maiden name given, as was the custom then - buying or selling "headrights:" the land given to new immigrants into the colony or to those who paid their passage from England. They were associated with the Lecompte family, French Huguenots that emigrated to Maryland ca. 1650, perhaps having paid their passage or that of their servants...[2]
In 1665, when she was 18 (if born 1647, the most likely date), Tabitha Wright married William Mills, who was born 1628 according to court testimony when he was 30. William is sometimes confused with William Milles, b. 1638 in Cratfield, Suffolk, England, but there is no documentation to prove this. William immigrated to Maryland in 1651 as an indentured servant.
William and Tabitha settled on the west bank of the Patuxent River at a place that became known as Milltown Landing. They were planters there and possibly owned a grist-mill or saw-mill.
Tabitha was pregnant with her daughter, also named Tabitha, when her husband died in April 1676; she is the "unborn childe" mentioned in his March 13, 1676, Will that was proven April 26, 1676.[3]
At William Mill's death in April 1676, his estate was inventoried by a neighbor and fellow planter, Thomas Blanford. It was appraised at 29,559 Pounds (doubtlessly counted in tobacco, which was widely used as currency in Virginia & Maryland; 150 pounds of cured tobacco equaled about 20 shillings or 1 British pound)[4] with 11,313 owed to debts, leaving a net worth of 18,246 pounds of tobacco. Tabitha received 6,082, her "widow's third," and William's orphans, including Tabitha, the "unborn childe," received 12,164 pounds of tobacco. This was a sizeable estate for that time and place and shows that the Mills family were prominent planters in the county.
We will never know whether it was the 29 year-old widow's beauty or her wealth that most appealed to Thomas Blanford, b. Nov. 18, 1648, Blanford, Dorset, England; he had emigrated to Maryland in 1674. What we do know is that they married in Calvert County on June 13, 1678.
The marriage produced a flurry of activity. Two days later, on 15 June 1678, Tabitha, now Blanford, aet 30, former wife of William Mills, dec'd, was a deponent in a court case along with others:
Three days after that, on June 18, 1678 [6] an order of ejectment refers to William Mills, now deceased, who had a house at Brooke Court Manor, and that "his relict Tobitah Blanford" had a "lodger at Mills house 8 years past," namely Andrew Tenchill (Tenehill?) , Merchant.
Thomas Blanford wrote his will on his birthday in 1695; it was proven April 28, 1698. He died shortly before the latter date. His widow, Tabitha, was named as Executrix and unique beneficiary during her lifetime. His five living children: Thomas, Jean, Elizabeth, Grace, and Martha were named as residual beneficiaries after Tabitha's death. Thomas Blanford's estate, after debts were paid, was similar to what William Mills' had been - it was valued at just £118.19.2 British pounds (= 17, 850 pounds of tobacco). The estate overseers included William Mills (Jr.) and Edward Willett (husband of Tabitha Mills).[7]
Tabitha W. M. Blanford survived her second husband by about 30 months, dying around December 1700. Her estate was inventoried on January 20, 1701, in Prince George's County, Maryland.[8] Her goods and chattels amounted to 93 Pounds Sterling (about 13,950 pounds of tobacco @ 150 lbs per 1 lb. Sterling). Her son, Thomas Blanford, administered her estate.[9]
Various payments were made by and to her estate. Tabitha Blandford (widow) 23.69 A PG £91.12.2 £31.4.3 Jul 9 1702:
The following was written in a biography of her daughter Tabitha's husband - Edward Willett, Jr.:
Both husbands died when their younger children were small. William Mills died in 1676 when his oldest child was 11 and his youngest was unborn. Thomas Blanford died in 1698; by that time the youngest Mills child was 22, but his own children ranged from 19 to 12. When Tabitha Wright Mills Blanford died in 1700, her living children were aged 17 to 21. Martha, her youngest daughter and youngest living child, went to live with the John Pottenger family.
Tabitha if born in 1647, was aged 18 when her first child was born in 1665, and 39 when her last child was born in 1686.
Children with William Mills
With William Mills, Tabitha (Wright) Mills had at least 7 children (some sources say 11 children but several may have died as infants):[12]
Children with Thomas Blanford
Thomas and Tabitha Blanford had 7 children together:[13]
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That John Wight on Wiki.
What is a contemporary source that her maiden name was either Wright or Wight?
edited by Rick Saunders
COLONIAL needs reference.
Thanks Terry